Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Condolences to Late Mdm Teresa Hsu Who Passed Away Peacefully at Age 113


Mdm Teresa Hsu ~ an unselfish lady who had cared for the poor n needy n did what she could cos 'Nobody should eat grass'...a great woman with a big heart...she had touched many lives...n made a difference to many...different from majority of the apathetic population in this damn practical society, she will be sorely missed...:'(

Humanity, a quality which is sorely lacking amongst many urbanites in today's materialistic society!!! anyway, it's easy to talk abt how $ aint important esp for those with $$$ n who havent experience poverty! -.-" i dont try to act noble n say tt $$$ aint important! anyway, one can still survive without respect...but one will die if one has no $$$! sad but true fact of life!

I first saw her in person at an Anthony Robbins seminar a couple of years ago...she was there to do the firewalk too!!! to me, it has never been abt the quantity...cos i believe quality precedes quantity...n the contributions n legacy tt one leaves behind after one passes on would be far more important in accessing how one has lived! i always talk abt leaving behind a legacy after i'm long gone...we r all reduced to ashes at the end of the day...but how many lives have we touched??? o.O it's never too late to start today...

Her message to young people today: "Go all out to help those who don't have the basic needs. See that nobody needs to go hungry."

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Read more abt her inspiring life here:
(http://sg.news.yahoo.com/blogs/singaporescene/help-singapore-mother-teresa-031007628.html)

"Meet Singapore’s ‘Mother Teresa’

Under our "Inspiring People" monthly column, we highlight the incredible journey of one person who has overcome tremendous odds to achieve personal success. This column celebrates the triumph of the human spirit and we hope it will inspire you to reach for your dreams too. This month, we bring to you supercentenarian and prominent social worker Teresa Hsu, whose life's work speaks volumes about the strength of her character and the goodness of her heart.


At 47, she enrolled and was accepted into in a three-year nursing course in London meant for students under 25.

At 67, she founded one of the first home for the aged sick in Singapore in the 1960s, where she worked until she was 85-years-old.

Her passionate work and active lifestyle has won ex-nurse Teresa Hsu various accolades such as the National Volunteer and Philanthropy Centre's Special Recognition Award (2006) and the Sporting Singapore Inspiration Award for her teaching of yoga (2004).

Singapore's famed 'Mother Teresa' turns 113 this month and her single-minded desire and commitment to help the needy remains as strong as it was years ago.

The actual Mother Teresa, who was born in 1910 and died in 1997, was a Catholic nun of Albanian ethnicity and Indian citizenship, recognised internationally for her ministry to the poor, sick, orphaned and dying. In 1979, she was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize for her humanitarian work.

Singapore's supercentenarian spends her days at Heart to Heart, an outreach unit she founded in Hong Kong in 1923. (It was called Friends of the Needy then.)

There, she and co-worker Sharana Rao, 62, look after the needs of 13 single elderly folks and four needy families in Singapore. They provide basic food and money for rent, utilities, travel and companionship.

She also donates money to help in the care of 47 visually-impaired children and teenagers in Ho Chi Minh.

Speaking to Yahoo! Singapore in a coffee shop, the cheerful and humble welfare worker, dressed simply in a batik-styled outfit, reiterates her lifelong goal of caring for the poor and needy.

'Nobody should eat grass'

Senior citizens today "need loving-kindness, company and food," stated Hsu. "Many of them don't have enough food."

Hsu, whose authorised biography was published earlier this year, remembers being "very poor and very hungry" when she was seven and had to resort to eating grass.

"As long as it's within my power, I will see that nobody should eat grass. That is my work now, caring for those that do not have the basic needs," pledged the vegetarian, whose favourite treats include vanilla ice cream.

Born in a poor but caring family in Kak Chioh Swatow — a tiny village in the Guangdong province of China — in 1898, Hsu has traveled far and wide helping others and leaving her imprint in countries such as Hong Kong, England and Paraguay, before finally settling down in Singapore.

She shared in her recently-released biography, Heart to Heart with Teresa Hsu, her "wake up call" came in 1933 in Hong Kong, when she came across a beggar asking for food, just as she had attended a lavish company dinner.

Describing the "great pain in my heart" from witnessing the suffering of a fellow human being, Hsu decided, she would donate her money to the less fortunate instead of spending it on herself.

From then, she spent an average of only 30 cents a day for food and drink, giving away the remainder of her money.

But just sharing her money was not enough.


In the 1940s, Hsu, who was in her 40s, joined the Friends Ambulance Unit, where she looked after 20 young men and acted as their translator in China during the Second World War.

After four years, she felt called to study nursing. Against all odds, she boarded a cargo ship headed for England to study at the London Royal Free Hospital. Her determination and desire so impressed the Council, that she was accepted into the three-year course meant only for those aged between 17 to 25.

During the summer breaks, Hsu worked as an exchange volunteer with the International Voluntary Service for Peace in many European countries such as Germany, France, Spain, Switzerland, Norway and Demark.

She later joined the Society of Brothers in Paraguay, a haven for Jewish refugees from Hitler's persecution. She worked in a hospital and her duties included giving medication, injections and attending to women's health problems.

Other than caring for the 2,000 residents in the society's grounds, Hsu would deliver food to lepers living on the outskirts of the town everyday. She also gave out medicine and food, meant for society members, to the poor and sick — a move that often got her into trouble with the Society.

Her move to Singapore

After eight years, she returned to China. In 1961, Hsu moved again, this time with her mother, to Singapore to live with Hsu's elder sister, Ursula Khow. Khow was a school principal in Singapore.

She continued her social work in Singapore, serving first as an unsalaried matron at Kwong Wai Shiu Hospital for about three years before opening an old folks' home in 1965 on a piece of land in Jalan Payoh Lai.

It cost $150,000 and was funded by Khow. Called the "Home for the Aged Sick", it started with just seven elderly residents but quickly expanded to 250.

A volunteer, Lau Tong Ngee, who has known Hsu for more than 38 years, was quoted in her biography describing Hsu's work.

"The Home was accepting more and more residents and she had to hire more workers to help in the work. The workers themselves were all poor. Teresa gave them work and treated the workers and also their families well," he said.

At that time, Hsu was also caring for 26 needy families and single elderly folks through her outreach unit, Heart-to-Heart, he said.

After 20 years at the home, Hsu retired and turned her attention to her welfare service, Heart to Heart, where she still works up till today.

Committed to serving others

Currently, she also travels overseas occasionally to share her experiences with others.

Rao, who has known Hsu for nearly 40 years since he first met her when he volunteered at her old folks' home in 1972, described Hsu as a "very loving, hearty and wise soul (with) an enormous amount of compassion and love for the poor and needy".

"Her heart always goes to the poor and suffering," he said. "It's a great blessing and joy to be in her presence and (I'm) always learning from her. (She has) so much experience, wisdom and always sharing her 'hahaha' recipe." (The recipe refers to Hsu's advice to people to lead a happy life.)

After a lifetime of placing the needs of others before herself, is Hsu ever tempted to sit back and enjoy her golden years?

No, she stressed. "No temptation can come into my house. I have work to do, I am not diverted."

She hopes this is a lesson that future generations will learn and remember.

Her message to young people today: "Go all out to help those who don't have the basic needs. See that nobody needs to go hungry."

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Interesting Quotes:

"The 3 C’s of life: choices, chances, and changes. You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change."

“Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.” ~ Abraham Lincoln

"Don't listen or think about anything other people say about you. Just live your life and prove them wrong."

"Persistently viewing others as dishonest, lazy, sinful, and ignorant can be a way of compensating for something you fear. If there's a pattern of seeing others as failures, you need to notice this pattern as evidence of what you're attracting into your life." ~ Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Update:

how it feels to b walking alone amongst the shopping crowd along orchard road during this time of the year...i had to be there several times a week last year n the year before tt...quite glad tt i dont have to be there so often this yr! =.=" how lonely it feels during this time of the year! Time to take another look at the legal stuff in front of me again o.O

2 comments:

feefyefoe said...

hey, i received your email about the christmas eve event and decided to pop by your blog.

a little introduction about myself, i used to be active on cozycot and have seen you around. to be honest, i didn't have quite a good impression of you, because of the way you presented yourself on the forum (boastful, asking all sorts of weird questions and asking for advices from cotters but not heeding them).

but my impression changed after reading your blog. you are a straightforward girl who seemed rather nice. and don't say what you are boring etc. at least you are going for lots of events and meeting new people.

and stop saying what you should die in your sleep. just because someone doesn't treasure you doesn't mean you shouldn't treasure yourself. he doesn't sound like a guy worth living the rest of your life with, so you are better off without him.

The One N Only Leechie said...

thx for your words of encouragement...to b honest...i'm not happy...n i dont know how to be happy...not many ppl can appreciate my honesty...well, someone doesnt :'(