Monday, January 17, 2011

Lillian Too Live 2011!

With Auntie Lilian at her fengshui talk at Suntec!
Now i'm damn convinced tt iphone produces better pics than my silly Sony Ericsson Vivaz o.O" btw, my leechie mum saw this pic n commented tt Auntie Lilian looks v.young for her age o.O

Reached the seminar earlier this year...Auntie Lilian started by covering the flying stars chart for 2011 and then followed by the bazi chart before breaking for lunch...then she covered the 24 mountains and important aspects for each animal sign...leechie has been attending her seminars for a couple of years now...find the format slightly different this year o.O think she has more fengshui items for sale this year too! bot the red ruyi wallet n a mantra scarf...the scarf alone is close to $100 ler...ouchie =.=" Before attending the seminar, fren was telling me tt she aint planning to buy any stuff...but she ended up buying more stuff than me ;p wanna thank her for keeping me company during the seminar...had fun chatting with her too...gotta thank the internet for connecting ppl with common interests =) btw, my leechie mum was again commenting tt the pricing of the fengshui items sold there at the extragavanza being on the higher end as compared to the usual fengshui shops here o.O

Btw, there was somthg tt i aint too keen to mention much abt...but it seemed like an annual occurrence...i kinda regretted introducing my ex to fengshui...cos i always see him there at Lilian Too's annual fengshui event...what an eyesore -.-" but when i saw him there again this year, i'm v.muchie comforted by what i learnt from Joey Yap abt face reading...well, mr.ex's nose looks soooooo served as a damn good confirmation tt he can never ever give me what i want in life! B-) n i aint being mean here...i'm juz stating what i learnt from face reading...i also learnt from a higher-being's advice tt i would be better off without him...he even raised doubts abt mr.ex's ability to even afford a 3-room flat -.-"

Rem harn was asking for advice if guys who suggested going to foodcourts for dates r's my leechie response to her posting:
"i have a different really depends on the size of his bank account...if he can more than afford it n yet brings u to a cheapo place every time...then he's plain cheapo...but if he has a mickey mouse bank account n yet wanna bring u to fancy places to dine every time u go out on dates, doubt u'll feel comfy with such a pathetic guy who juz wanna keep up with the jones ;p
dont call me materialistic...i'm purely capitalistic ;p
i'm not high-maintenance's juz tt everyone's definition of luxury is diff ;p"
Anyway, i have better things to do than to waste my leechie time on unimportant ppl n things =.=" certain ppl r juz plain history...n they better stay there -.-"
"Never long for anyone from the past. There is a reason why they never made it to your future."

No offence to anyone...juz some amusing quotes from Peter:
"women below 20s > gets someone rich and handsome.
women btw 20s - 30s > find someone rich & handsome.
women btw 30s - 40s > find someone rich
women above 40s -> find someone

"‎:) just joking... hehe...
men below 20s > find someone pretty
men btw 20s - 30s > find someone pretty
men btw 30s - 40s > find someone pretty
men abv 40s > find someone pretty"

Manferd's quote:
Navy ppl hav a saying, "it isnt ur fault that you are born poor, but it is ur fault that you have a poor father-in-law"

Hmmm, i'm really single...but dunno y many ppl have the impression tt i'm taken? when i probed further...this is what i was told:
"U r a spontaneous n interesting person. I wouldn't think u r single. Guess the guys r intimidated by ur brains n looks"
What a compliment! Well, it definitely stroked my A380 ;p

Some stuck-up salon refused to trim my leechie fringe cos i didnt make an appointment, claiming tt they r alrdy damn annoyed leechie returned home to trim my fringe's not exactly perfect but i dare to say tt i can do a far better job than some crappy salons n hairstylists -.-"

Btw, leechie is busy with her spring cleaning project these's an annual affair...juz realized tt i hav caught this hoarders' disease...whereby i like to hoard stuff...even stuff tt i havent use in donkey years...clinging onto stuff with the thinking tt i might hav use for them 1 fine day....this "1 fine day" effect is v.bad! >.< so i'm trying to dump stuff...actually, clearing out stuff can be v.detoxing for both soul n mind...we r actually making space for other more empowering stuff into our lives!!! let's jia you together ya! =)

Leechie is in her midst of enjoying her CNY hols...juz finished half a bottle of 2008 Cabernet Sauvignon (couresty of Phillips CFD) paired with cheese tofu n wasabi chips while watching Jackie Chan movie on tv ;p btw, i finally tried out the lovely purple eyeshadow palette tt dear kevin lao shi sent me last's good for smokey eyes =) also tried his eye primer...thumbs up! btw, my new nerdy glasses r making me look uncle's cny wish is for me to grow up faster...forgot to tell him tt when i grow up, i wanna b a leech ;p ‎
"It is never too late to be what you might have been." ~ George Eliot
so when i grow up, i wanna b a leech! ;p
Just fresh from Dave's Quotery, "No one can make the strongest believer in you but yourself."
Amused tt i was stopped in the streets yest n asked if i'm korean o.O"
i forgot to i look like a korean before or after plastic surgery? ;p
but i dont think i look the least bit korean at all =.="
Some cousins came over to visit us when i wasnt home today...n tt kaypoh leechie mum asked me y my younger cousin look so aged with her dark eye
Wanna wish everyone here a Happy Rabbit Year! HUAT Arh!!! =)

Guess what? my cough was okie after i took red wine last wkend...i'm wine usually works better than any cough mixture for me! but my dear leechie mum bought me bubble tea from a new shop near our place yest (tt shop was featured in the papers) n i started coughing again!crapz >.<

Leechie is starting to wonder if Singapore is really that small after all...cos it seems that i seem to know at least one guy in Cleo's bachelors for a couple of consecutive years ler o.O"

Damn good quote of the day:
"It's not about who is real to your face, it's about who stays real behind your back."
Some ppl r sooooooooooo damn political tt it's such a waste of their talents not to b in politics instead!!! -.-"

Btw, having a caustic tongue doesnt make one a lemon...otherwise it would b like saying tt every guy who has a moustache is ur dad ;p

With the glamorous Jennifer Too!
This pic was only captured at the third attempt...both the earlier 2 pics turned out to b v.blur -.-" think my Sony Ericsson Vivaz is v.sensitive to shaking n any slight movement...n Jennifer was saying tt i shld get an iphone o.O

Well, i would readily admit tt leechie is a Prada fan...ever since i was a teenager...c'mon even the devil wears prada...moreover, i'm only a leechie ;p

The Prada bag tt leechie is planning to carry this coming CNY ;p

My Moschino watch was delivered today...n my leechie mum forgot to inform a leechie =.="
Was quite surprised tt this watch came with a complimentary Moschino ;p
Brought my watch over to Bugis area for strap alteration n my leechie mum was pretty amused tt leechie brought along the BIG watch box n all its contents >.< the strap was abit too long for a leechie...the shop owner is soooooooooo nice as to not charge me anything for the alteration service although i didnt buy the watch from him!!! =)

My Moschino "Time for Peace" watch...simple n classic...without any bling bling...nice? =)

Yummy fruits from my thai fren =)

Take a closer look at the actual size of these cutie "fruits" ;p
it's actual a Thai dessert...similar to the ang ku kueh here in sg =)

Check out this cutie hamburger ;p

Audrey's back from her Japan n HK trips n so kind of her to help me get the following lovely items -> Visee n Jill Stuart Sweet Amethyst limited edition eyeshadow palettes...really appreciate it! such pretty palettes =)

My latest Paul&Joe mini haul =)
Daren't post pics of my much bigger hauls, lest i scare away cutie guys >.<

This pretty Hardy Candy Princess Palette flew in from UK =)

Leechie ♥ Chanel! =)

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Joey Jazzing Up Raffles Convention Centre!!!

Joey & leechie at Raffles Convention Centre =)

This was the first time tt leechie had attended Joey's annual fengshui talk in sg =) Was late this morn n miz part of his v.informative morning broker saw me at the break n asked y leechie was so late =.=" apparently, he knew kacey from Joey's bazi seminar last's a really small place ya o.O" aint amused with how i couldnt see nor hear v.clearly from the back (i was sitting at the v.last row in the room) i moved to the seats nearer the to a BIG screen...n tt was when they were giving away books at a mini Q&A...leechie raised her hand n answered a question correctly n received Joey's "Walking The Dragons" book =) also picked up useful tips on face reading too...n for those who enjoy poking fun of my leechie mushroom nose, well, let's hope tt leechie will be the one who will have the last laugh...cos the lady sitting next to me told me tt ladies with my kind of mushroom nose tend to marry richie bizmen ;p btw, leechie likes Joey's BIG nose! lol ;p

When i told the aunties sitting in front of me tt i wanna buy Joey's compass (the one tt came with an instruction booklet) which ran outta thought of buying his template instead...although i dunno how to use either (leechie cant read too muchie chinese >.<)...n i dont hav a floor plan too...they were v.amused with a leechie n poked fun of me...saying tt i'm v.cute n tt leechie shld go buy a condo apartment on sales at the exhibition booth outside the room first n then i'll have a floor plan n tt she could lend me her paper template to draw on the floor ;p she even did a demo to show me how to draw using her paper template which was given out during Joey's previous seminars o.O

Leechie enjoyed Joey's seminar v.muchie n i like Joey's cool sense of humor...although he has the tendency to speak quite fast at times o.O i like how he described liars as those ppl who r "economical with the truth" lol ;p also like how he tried to link the outlook to bazi n face reading...he actually covered alot of stuff n introduced some interesting concepts...more of modern fengshui =) i ordered a copy of his BaZi Day Pillar Forecast Report for leechie mum was again v.pleased with Joey tt leechie didnt go back with any fengshui decorative ;p i also bought tix to his july seminar here...looking forward to it =)

Btw, the v.first time tt leechie met Joey in person was at his "Design Your Destiny" seminar held at MBS last yr (u can read more abt it here: ) i didnt have the chance to get his autograph nor take pics with him i'm glad tt he signed my books (i only brought along a small skinny book...decided to leave his other relatively much heavier books at home o.O") n took pics with a leechie on sat =) well, leechie is v.muchie flattered to receive plenty of compliments for the pic taken too...keke ;p btw, i juz saw pics of Joey's KL seminar in which he presented in a brown suit...i know this is gonna sound abit bimbotic...but i actually thought that Joey looks good in brown n earth tones =) Well, i always think tt guys look cuter in pink ;p

Interesting quotes from Joey Yap:
"Meanwhile, contrary to what most feel, Yap feels there is nothing wrong with women using their looks to climb the corporate ladder or get their way.
"To women with good looks, I say congratulations, you have won the first battle. Now make sure you have the content to back it up," said Yap.
"Whether we want to admit it or not, looks are very important. Nobody can see how intelligent you are. People treat you better if you look better," he summed up."
Well, appreciate his honesty to say what many ppl might deny ;p I ♥ what he said...Joey Rocks!!! btw, finally found out Joey's real age...he's coincidentally the same age as Jennifer Too ;p

When a guy looks serious, tt can be ;p

leechie is a brand ;p

Leechie with her CNY RED leechie hair after spending 4 hours at Kim Robinson o.O my leechie hair was cut by their resident cutie stylist...i finally decided to have red highlights on my copper-tone hair after muchie deliberation...n the technician added 2 more streaks of highlights to my leechie hair after my feedback on the color job o.O happy to receive compliments on this new look =) well, could tell tt my cutie stylist aint too patient when he commented tt i already look like some Korean superstar after i told him to trim my leechie fringe to make it look more horizontal =.="

AFTER: Leechie sporting bright red highlights on copper-tone hair

BEFORE: Modelling for Wella hair coloring workshop in Nov last year (with wine hair color n the lower part of my hair looks purplish red)

BEFORE: Leechie after her haircut at Kim Robinson in August last year

Leechie is sporting bright red highlights on copper-tone hair now as compared to dark wine color previously when leechie modelled for Wella hair coloring u like my new leechie look? o.O

Btw, juz saw this webby on Angelina Jolie n other celebrities sporting the latest trendy clashing tone-on-tone hair color after i did my red highlights on copper-tone look ( Well, thought tt it's rather strange tt i was the one who actually gave the color technician instructions on what to do to achieve the subtle n contrasting highlights tt i wanted...thought tt they shld b more aware of the latest trends =.=" cos i saw them giving many of their customers the usual blonde highlights on dark brown hair look which i thought look rather passe o.O"

Thursday, January 13, 2011

How to Increase Your Likeability Without Losing Yourself

Saw this really good article that i would like to share with all my frenz here =)

How to Increase Your Likeability Without Losing Yourself
By Yangki Christine Akiteng, Love Doctor

I think it's safe to say that we're so interconnected that we need each other to survive. But just how much have we given thought to what this really means? How much do we need others? How much do they need us? Why do we even have relationships?

The times I've had people tell me I am acting like "I don't need anyone/others" or called me the B-word, it's usually because the person feels that they've tried to be nice to me, tried to get my attention, tried to be my friend and basically tried everything but felt ignored, taken for granted, not appreciated etc.

I am not perfect, and sometimes I can come across as "I don't need anyone/others" but that is my "issue' to deal with, if it's even an issue. Sometimes, it's just the other person's "issue" and they need to deal with it.

When we need someone else's approval and validation as a measure of our own worth, we find ourselves constantly comparing ourselves to someone else, obsessed with what we are lacking, what we still need to do, where we've gone wrong/not measured up etc. In most part we're focused on our imperfections, faults, shortcomings, pain, mental anguish, struggles, rejection and all the things that affect our sense of worthiness, self-confidence, attractiveness or likeability.

We are always thinking about what others think about us and whether they like us or not. We get so caught up in everyone else's feelings and thoughts that we forget our own. And because our skills for detecting other's feelings and thoughts about us have been finely honed as a result of many years of practice, we are on a contact quest to favourably influence their feelings and thoughts. We're consumed by the need to "fit in", belong to the "in-crowd" and/or become the most popular person in the room.

And as long as we think and believe that others' feelings and thoughts about us are good, we feel worthy, attractive, liked, loved, wanted, popular etc. But when it looks like someone's feelings and thoughts about us are not favourable, we either go overboard trying to "fix" those feelings and thoughts to favour us or develop feelings of dislike for the person we think/believe "does not like us".

But here is the catch: even though we are acting out of genuine concern for how others feel and trying to make sure they feel liked, valued and wanted, our actions are "selfish" in away because it's something born out of self-preservation and not self-less love.

By constantly trying to make others feel good about themselves (worthy, attractive, likeable, wanted etc.) you are sub-consciously trying to control how the other person feels about you. You're trying to "fix" their feelings and thoughts to your favour by controlling how they think and feel. Many people especially those who are emotionally mature can sense when you're trying to "nice them up" -- a majority are put off by it.

Trying to make others feel good about themselves gives you purpose and sense of doing something valuable with yourself. And even though at times you feel you don't like all the work of trying to "be nice", you do it because it's the only way you know how to get others to reciprocate. When you feel really fed up and stop all the compliments, nice words and actions; the attention, affection and compliments from the other end dry up too.

Now you feel even more rejected, more unappreciated, more take for granted, more unworthy, unattractive, unlikeable, unwanted etc. You start disliking the person you thought liked you. Even worse, you blame all the other "not so nice people" who act like they don't need anyone/others but get all the attention, approval and validation that you feel you rightly deserve. You feel even more unhappy, frustrated and invisible!

For many people in relationships, the toll of trying to fix other people's thoughts and feeling to your favour does catch up with you in that you spend so much time "keeping it together" and very little time creating a relationship based on mutual liking and respect between equals. You feel ignored, unfairly treated, walked on and taken for granted because you feel that however much you give, and whatever you do, you're are still left feeling worthless, unattractive and unwanted.

But this is not the reason you feel invisible, hopeless and helpless, the real reason you feel unhappy, invisible, hopeless, helpless and frustrated is because you've given the power over your thoughts, feelings and actions to someone else. Without them to make you worthy, attractive and wanted, you feel like you are nothing. In fact you feel nothing -- numb, bored, sad, depressed, dead etc. You're nothing, a no-body!

How do you stop yourself from this constant craving for external approval, validation and elevation?

By going back to the basics -- Who are you without the need for anything outside of yourself?

It can take some time for you to discover you really are without anyone or anything to prop you up. In many African cultures, at 12 - 15 years of age, young men and women are sent on a self-quest journey with just water and little food. They are told to constantly hold on to the thought 'Who am I?'. If a negative thought comes to mind, ask oneself "Who said that is who I am?" Many young people are often surprised to find that what most of the things they think they are, are what people have said they are or have projected on them.

For some young people it takes days, other it takes hours but when the young man or woman comes come back, they are asked some very basic questions. If the answers are not satisfactory to the elders, the young person is sent back to "find yourself".

Part of this quest for self is the deepening of one's awareness to one's external environment. The young man or woman is encouraged to use all of their senses yet remain focused and aware of what is inside, underfoot, over the head, all around, as well as what may lie further on because one self is not limited to the physical body but extends and is connected to the universal energy (everyone and everything).

Once he or she finds him/herself, the young man or woman is required to "sacrifice" something that they very much value at that moment they "find yourself". It can be anything like the last bit of water or food they have left (and could be what they need to survive), or an object with deep emotional value such as a bracelet, bead necklace, sandals etc. This is a symbol that you've let go all external attachments because they mean nothing when you have "yourself".

So here are some questions for you.

1. Who are you without your family members, without a Bachelor's of Science and Master's of Science degrees, without a job, without what you've accomplished, without what you think others want you to be etc?.

2. Ask yourself, "If this is who I really am, why don't I have the ease/love/contentment/ belonging/joy/happiness/well being it implies?"

Asking yourself this particular question can lead you to a very painful past -- things that people have said you are or have projected on you.

If feelings of fear, sadness, hurt, and pain surface accept them and embrace them. It's the authentic, neglected, abandoned, rejected, ignored, repressed etc part of you talking to you. If tears come, let them roll, do not try to suppress or stop them. When you are ready they'll stop on their own. If laughter comes don't worry about how you look laughing, just laugh-softly and quietly, hard and loud, whatever comes. If feelings of anger surface, don't try and make them go away by blaming, excusing, or psychoanalyzing why you are angry, and who or what you are angry at. Just acknowledge that you are angry and that it is okay knowing that life isn't always fair, we don't always get what we want, that sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you don't need to know why.

3. Then next thing is to answer the question, "From now forward, I will know I am not thinking, feeling or acting to my truest and deepest self when I am."

Take full responsibility for giving yourself the attention, affection, validation and everything else you want from others when you are trying to "fix" other people's feelings and thoughts to your favour or trying to able. "fit" in, belong to the "in-crowd" and become the most popular person in the room.

Feeling worthy, attractive, likeable, wanted etc. and actually having those inner feelings mirrored back to you by others is all about loving yourself enough to allow others to be who they are. A relationship - any relationship -- is nothing more than a mirror reflecting back to us who we are and where we're at in our life's journey. The mirror can't reflect back to us what isn't there.

Hopefully you'll find yourself; take back the power over your thoughts, feelings and actions; increase your likeability and start commanding attention, affection and respect -- without asking, demanding or begging for it.


In response to this status:
"living in a biased n prejudiced society when everyone hates u...
It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you are not..."

dear frenz wrote:
"We, the unwilling,
led by the unknowing,
are doing the impossible
for the ungrateful.
We have done so much,
...for so long,
with so little,
we are now qualified to do anything
with nothing." ~ Sherwin

"I can only say this "Behind every successful person lies a pack of haters"" ~ Alan

"Love me or hate me...just show me the money!" ~ Kelvin

"From the founder of FB : something like this " You can't be a Billionaire without any enemy"....haha....something like that....cheers" ~ Peng Kong

Thx...u guys rock!!! B-)


Interesting Quotes:

"Whatever dreams u have, whatever amazing idea u want to pursue, the reality of the world will always tell u NO, but thats the point, its up to u, and when u make that decision, it is yours, and your persistence will prevail in the end, if u have enough stamina!" ~ Ding An of Kallang Roar

"True love is when the one you love is happy with the one they love, & you still can smile & says, I'm happy when you're happy~ Love doesn't make the world go round but it is what makes the ride worthwhile~ If you want to change someone’s attitude, change & reflect upon your own 1st becos the same sun who melt the butter hardens the clay too~ Don’t focus too much on closed doors & lost sight of bright open windows~ ;)" ~ Mike

"How do you want to live your life? How do you want to play the game? Do you want to play in the big leagues or in the little leagues, in the majors or the minors? Are you going to play big or play small? It’s your choice." ~ Harv

""Predicting rain doesn't count, building arks does" ~ Warren Buffett. Always prepared with knowledge and resources so that you can capitalize when crisis or opportunity arises!"

"Understand that whether you're the CEO of a conglomerate or a fisherman in a remote village, or somewhere in between, you're an eternal BEING. And there is nothing to prove but to enjoy & move towards being your Greatest Self. It's not a competition nor a race. Start LIVING, stop CHASING. Breathe deeply, consciously & connect with your Central Self, your Real Self." ~ Helen Lee

"There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do." ~ Freya Stark

"Success is failure turned inside out.The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,and when you never can tell how close you are.It may be near when it seems a far;so stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit.It’s when things seem worst, you must not quit." ~ Edgar A. Guest (From the Poem "Don't Quit")

"没人能对你的幸福负责, 除了你自己. No one is in charge of your happiness except you."

"My strategy works well because it’s my strategy. I know the strengths and, more importantly, the weaknesses of what it is I do. It also works well because I allow it to work and stick with it even when it runs into difficult times. Nothing works well if you keep changing your approach. To be a master you must be a specialist, not a jack of all trades." ~ Mark Minervini

"You can’t hit a home run unless you step up to the plate. You can’t catch a fish unless you put your line in the water. You can’t reach your goals if you don’t try." ~ Kathy Seligman

"Some people make the world happen, more watch the world happen, most wonder what happened"

"Virtually anything you could ever want to be, have, or do is achievable with learning and hard work. Any system or blueprint for success is better than none at all. Think on paper." ~ Brian Tracy

"Communication is a skill that you can learn. It's like riding a bicycle or typing. If you're willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of every part of your life." ~ Brian Tracy

‎"Take responsibility for how you're feeling, for your inner state. Your predominant thoughts & emotions affect your being & your life & will collectively create ALL experiences you go through, without exception. It's logical therefore to do everything you can to be happy. It's worthwhile therefore to take charge of how you respond to all situations. Choose JOY no matter what!" - Helen Lee
PS If you're grieving the loss of a loved one, you can do so fully & then shift into joy again. Celebrate LIFE! Basically, we can all feel fully whatever emotions that come up, in any variety of situations including horrific disasters; and we can then consciously choose to shift into joy or at least optimism to begin with, rather than stay in a state that doesn't serve us or others in a positive and productive way." ~ Helen Lee

"The question should be, is it worth trying to do, not can it be done."

"I met someone yesterday who told me she was afraid to study her BaZi chart because she was too afraid of what she might find out about herself. Someone like this may also be afraid of going to take a medical examination or see a doctor - fearing what the doctor might tell her about her health. Having a check-up , whether through your ...BaZi or through your doctor is merely seeking information. What you DO with the information after you receive it is more important.

I would suggest that one should strive to be a realist. A realist is not afraid to look at the (possible) harsh circumstances of life - and take action to resolve." ~ Joey

"One has to believe in herself to get over all the problem he/she going to face. Fengshui has provide a good guidance on how to deal along our life, but it is still up to one individual strenght to overcome his own destiny. For those out there, facing problems and solving problems is part of human lifes. That's what god create us for. I will be attending Joey's seminar in Penang 27th Feb. Lets meet and exchange ideas! Thanks to Joey's fengshui guidance which has change the thinking of handling my life."

"Take control over your environment and ensure that it's predominantly positive. A feeling of significance arises in you when you know that you are making a difference in the world."

"Most people are more comfortable with old problems than with new solutions." ~ Merry

"Anyone can memorize facts and figures. The real way to learn anything is to go out and experience it. Let your curiosity lead you." ~ Curious George

"When you let go of all resistance to changes, including the very changes & results you want, (& yet won't allow yourself to have for some reason/s), you'll be amazed at how much blocked energy you will be releasing! And joy, power, great health & all forms of abundance will be yours! It is really time to let go & be all that you can be! It is also easier to do so now than ever before. LET GO!" ~ Helen Lee

"sometimes the person u least expected, becomes the one person u need the most!"

"is it possible to find wealth without losing your soul?" Passion, Talent, Hard work!

"In life, sometimes there's not a right answer... but there's an infinite number of wrong answers, if that makes you feel any better."

"Don't worry about what people think, they don't do it very often."

"The worst part of winning a rat race is not that you win, but the fact that you're still a rat."

"I follow my own intelligence, and my conclusions don't have to be in agreement with anyone else's. But anybody who is intelligent, can see it too." ~ OSHO

"People will resist a sales presentation. But no one can resist a story... well told."

‎"I would rather live a short life of glory than a long one of obscurity." ~ Alexander the Great

"A beautiful life does not just happen, it is built daily by prayer, humility, sacrifice and love."

"When it's slow, trade it slow, when it's quick, trade it quick and when it's not moving, go to the gym."

"We are continually faced by great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."

"Virtually anything you could ever want to be, have, or do is achievable with learning and hard work. Any system or blueprint for success is better than none at all. Think on paper."

"In the end ... it's not the years in your life that counts. It is the LIFE in your years that matters most."

"Some people told me I'm a Dreamer.. Yeah I am. Because a Life without a dream, like a guiter without strings"

"To go against the dominant thinking of your friends, of most of the people you see every day, is perhaps the most difficult act of heroism you can perform." ~ Theodore H. White

"Forgiveness does not change the past but it will certainly change your future. Forgive someone today."

"Hard truths - all truths are hard to accept. That's why most people choose to suppress the truth, live with half truths & accept lies as truths" ~ Joshua

"There are several different aspects of courage: “Perhaps the most important is the courage to endure, to persist, to ‘hang in there’ in the face of doubt, uncertainty and criticism from others. Courage comes from acting courageously on a day-to-day basis. Your personal-development goal should be to practice the behaviors of a totally fearless person until you become, in your own mind, unstoppable.”" ~ Brian Tracy

"It's not about who you know, it's what they know about you"

"There is only one success - to be able to spend your life in your own way." ~ Christopher Morley

"It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you are not..."

‎"The game is my wife; it demands loyalty & responsibility & it gives me back fulfillment & peace." ~ Michael Jordan

"If you don't like the road you're walking, start paving another one." ~ Dolly Parton

"The great question is not whether you have failed, but whether you are content with failure."

‎"If you can't fly then run, if you can't run then walk, if you can't walk then crawl but whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward." ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

‎"My principle is to survive first and make money afterwards." ~ George Soros

"Luxury must be comfortable, otherwise it is not luxury" ~ Coco Chanel

"If you must play, decide on three things at the start: the rules of the game, the stakes, and the quitting time"

"‎4 main reasons a girl will stop texting u: 1.u got her mad. 2.u got boring. 3.She fell asleep. 4.You said e letter 'K'."

"If a girl is stupid enough to love you after you broke her heart, I guarantee you, she is the one. Don't let her go."

"U can't make the whole world happy, so just make yourself happy"

"Happiness is a choice! Happiness is a habit! Happiness is a practice, not a philosophy! To be happy, you need to master your mind! Your mind affects your feelings, your feelings affect your beliefs and your beliefs affect the truths and the truths affect your reality!"

"Happiness is one of the choices many of us forget we can choose."

"PHILOSOPHY: A study that lets us be unhappy more intelligently."

"Life doesn't just happen to you; you receive everything in your life based on what you've given." ~ Lil Twist

"There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path." ~ Morpheus

“When angry, count to ten before you speak; if very angry, an
hundred.” ~ Thomas Jefferson

‎"The more you know who you are and what you want, the less you let things upset you.” ~ Lost in Translation

‎"The fashionable woman wears clothes. The clothes don't wear her."

"Whenever you feel uncomfortable, instead of retreating back into your old comfort zone, pat yourself on the back and say, “I must be growing,” and continue moving forward." ~ Harv

"The future is not something we enter. The future is something we create."

‎"If you have no successful role model for what you want to do, then look at what everybody else is doing and do the opposite." ~ Earl Nightingale

"The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives."

“If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.”

"Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds." ~ Orison Swett Marden

“Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”

"A champion is someone who gets up, even when he can't."

‎"Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is insanity" ~ Albert Einstein

The future is not something we enter. The future is something we create."

‎"If you have no successful role model for what you want to do, then look at what everybody else is doing and do the opposite." ~ Earl Nightingale

"The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives."

"I want someone that would come in my life on accident and stays on purpose."

"Age is a matter of feeling, not of years."

"It matters more what's in a woman's face than what's on it."

"Character is both developed and revealed by tests, and all of life is a test. You are always being tested." ~ Rick Warren

"When one hits the rock bottom, the only way left is up. Make the trip worthwhile & share some experiences, cos when one goes up, one tends to forget.. "

‎"While A students become academics, C students become billionaires". ~ Former US Treasury Secretary and Harvard University President Professor Larry Summers

“Willpower is the key to success. Successful people strive no matter what they feel by applying their will to overcome apathy, doubt or fear.” ~ Dan Millman

"There is only one success — to be able to spend your life in your own way."

"Never long for anyone from the past. There is a reason why they never made it to your future."

"A little girl seeks revenge. A real woman moves on while karma does the dirty work."

"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." ~ Helen Keller

"You are the best judge of your own life. Choose your path and choose it wise. Whatever the case is, good or bad. Just Follow Your Heart :)"

“Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted ” ~ Einstein

"Tip of today? Give people the benefit of doubt and live a little. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter much. Remember, those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. After all, Dr. Suess is never wrong."

"Experts learn to perceive things that are invisible to novices, such as the characteristics of a typical situation." ~ Gary Klein

"We don't stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing." ~ George Bernard Shaw

“Think like a man of action, and act like a man of thought.” ~ Henri L. Bergson

"Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher."

"Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive." ~ Howard Thurman

"If you can't solve a problem, it's because you are playing by the rules."

"It's right to be wrong."

"If you cant change the world, change yourself."

"I don't think trading strategies are as vulnerable to not working if people know about them, as most traders believe. If what you are doing is right, it will work even if people have a general idea about it. I always say you could publish rules in a newspaper and no one would follow them. The key is consistency and discipline." ~ Richard Dennis

"A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love."

“Hope is not a strategy. Luck is not a factor. Fear is not an option.” ~ James Cameron

"Start writing a new chapter, for if you live by the book you'll never make history." ~ Ben Sobel

"Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.” ~ Will Smith

"Behind every successful person lies a pack of haters"

"Love me or hate me...just show me the money!"

.............就是讓他心靈滿足與精神上快樂。物質上的快樂比不上精神上的快樂與滿足。人真正的快樂來自於自己的心靈, 只要心靈滿足, 那也可以領悟出真正的快樂。所以要抓住男人, 首先就要學會懂男人的心。因為英文有句名言曰 "Bliss to women who read men’s mind" 懂男人的女人最幸福。不論男人或女人, 要找到一個值得愛的人,首先讓自己成為一個值得被愛的人。相愛.. 相知... 相惜... 懂得珍惜的人才會擁有幸福。這只是我~ 王瑋軒的想法。" ~ Jeff



‎"喜欢一个人, 一定要让对方知道。也许得不到答案,至少你努力过,不必后悔。你喜欢着谁?"

"一个单身人久了,就不想去恋爱,会感觉朋友越来越重要;一个单身人久了,就不想去逛街,会越来越喜欢在家听歌;一个人单身久了,就变得成熟起来,会比以前越来越爱父母;一个人单身久了,就买很多鞋子,会独自去很多很远的地方旅游; 一个人单身久了,就不经意悄悄流泪,会在众人面前什么都无所谓。"

"爱女友六大守则 - 1,女友绝对不会有错。 2,如果发现女友有错,一定是我看错。 3,如果我没看错,一定是我的错,才害女友犯错。 4,如果是她自己的错,只要她不认错,她就没有错。5, 如果女友不认错,我还坚持她有错,那就是我的错。 6,总之,女友绝对不会有错。这句话绝对不会错。"









"其实爱对了人,情人节每天都过 ♥ "

"Real girls aren’t perfect. Perfect girls aren’t real. - 真实的女孩不完美,完美的女孩不真实。" i know what ppl mean when they call me “美女” =.=" kns!

Damn touching clip...dont wait till it's too late!!!

Damn touching QQ ad o.O
Cherish time spent with our parents ya...dont wait till it's too late!!!

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Argentine Chillout-cum-Networking Event on 22nd Jan 2011 (Sat)

Dear Friends =)

Thanks for your support in making our Xmas Eve chill-out event another full-house event. Mostly new faces joined our event for the first time and we are really very honored to receive very positive feedback from a business owner that the participants in our events are of better quality than other Singles events. Any plans for the upcoming Sat nite? Come and discover this new and classy Argentine bar which is quietly-tucked away amidst the busy city area and which offers just the right ambience for networking. Join us for a special evening and link up with like-minded people. You may come alone but you could possibly meet your "Perfect Ten" match =) You wouldn't know what you are missing out on if you are not here to experience it for yourself =)

Please feel free to forward this invite to all your singles friends.

Demographics of past participants:
Expats, investment bankers, business owners, traders, bankers, lawyers, doctors, accountants, managers, lecturers and phD & Masters degree holders and other professionals from various industries

Centrally located? Check.. Classy chillout venue? Check.. Cozy with great ambience? Check..

Details for the Argentine Chillout event are as follow:
Date/Time: 22nd Jan (Sat) 7 to 10 pm

Venue: New and Classy Argentine bar in town within 5 mins walk from nearest MRT station (exact meetup location is only revealed to confirmed participants)

Programme: Drinks will be served from 7pm onwards. Rotation with many networking opportunities for you to get to know professionals from various industries. If possible, do bring along your name cards to facilitate interaction and for the lucky draw game (Many attractive prizes to be won!)

Please email leechietheleech@ with the following details:

a) You and your friends' names (if any)
b) You and your friends' contact numbers and email addresses

* Confirmed participants will receive an acknowledgement email latest the following day. Further instructions (exact meetup location details) are included in the acknowledgement email.

* Gatecrasher fee of $38 at each venue is applicable to all unregistered participants & those who walk-in. All unregistered on-lookers will be banned from future events.

* Pls note that the above planned programme and f&b serve only as a guide and is subject to changes but we will try to stick to it as far as possible.

* Feel free to invite your frenz to join us and be part of our hip networking scene! ;)

* Pls check out my blog ( for updates on all events =)

Please register early to secure your participation as we received overwhelming response for our previous events and had to reject some applicants on the waiting lists due to the constrain as imposed by the max capacity of the venues. Even the waiting lists were building up. We look forward to hear from you soon! =)

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Testimonials From Past Participants:

“I must say the ppl in your event are of better quality than other Singles events” – R. K., Business Owner

“Thanks for arranging such a great evening yesterday, beautiful night with lots of great new friends :)“ – L. S., Technical Director

"Leechie, we would continue our firm support by getting fresher faces to your singles dating scene. You have displayed initiative, intuition, persistence, care, concern, creativity and passion in facilitating and enhancing instant rapport, personality development and healthy communication among local and foreign qualified singles in your centre of influence." - K. C., Associate Manager

"Thanks for arranging for networking event. I have enjoyed myself last evening. You are definitely a good organizer for such events." - B.K., Agency Manager

"Hooray, we are glad to have you indeed as an efficient, effective, meticulous, detailed, expressive and communicative singles social event organiser who got along well with most of us new kids on the block." - K.C., Senior Associate Director

“Thanks for the awesome event.” – G., Banking Executive

"Thanks for organising this wonderful networking event for the singles. I really enjoyed..." - F.S., Accounts Executive

"Leechie, thanks for the great networking event that day." - K.C., Consultant

"Thanks for organizing the great event!" - H. H., Marketing Executive

"You have done a good job and I know it's tough to organize such a big group. Keep it up" - L.L., Pilates Teacher

"Thanks for last night's fun outing..." - R.C., Senior Associate Manager

"Wa really nice place. Hmm...u are really good at finding this kind of nice cozy environment. .. =P" - S.P., Makeup Artist

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Would like to introduce to u The Networking Scene Exclusive Members' Privilege Card with many benefits:
- Priority application for all our networking events (so that u don't have to worry about being placed on the waiting list and missing out on our exciting events again...)
- Welcome voucher of $5 off one networking event
- Exclusive invites to private parties with complimentary freeflow drinks* (terms and conditions apply)
- Exclusive members only events
- 5 % off all networking events
- 20% off one networking event in your birthday month



Be part of our hip networking scene! ;)

"It's not about who you know, it's what they know about you" ;p
Mostly new frenz have signed up for this exciting vacancies r still take action fast n dont miz out on this opportunity to meet more new frenz!!!

♥♥♥ Valentino Retrospective: Past/Present/Future ♥♥♥

Leechie fav dress of this exhibition ♥ look at all those bling bling crystals on the dress ♥

Soooooooo pretty ♥

Rem this Valentino dress tt Julia Roberts wore to the Oscars? o.O

So sweet n pretty ♥

Went to attend this "Valentino Retrospective: Past/Present/Future" exhibition at RWS on the 1st day of 2011 with Mandy...courtesy of L'Officiel mag =) the lighting was deliberately kept low to preserve these gowns...although we would hav preferred better lighting if possible...but we really enjoyed this nice to see all these beautiful haute couture gowns =) saw somthg on the wall abt a LAST Valentino a curious leechie went to ask the lady manning the tix counter a v.noob question...if mr.Valentino is still alive n kicking today...ya, found out tt he's actually 78 now n still v.muchie alive n kicking =) apologies for my silly question cos it seemed tt a couple of designers had left us over the last few years n leechie is starting to b abit confused abt who r still around @.@" btw, leechie was really v.glad to have Mandy accompany me to this exhibition cos all the mannequins were in grey n the environment reminded a leechie of some dark museum...leechie no guts de...abit scared...n Mandy reminded leechie not to tap the glass panels lest i wake up some of these mannequins =.=" wanna thx L'Officiel once again for this memorable experience...both Mandy n leechie enjoyed this exhibition v.muchie ♥

This is Mandy's fav dress of this exhibition =)


Anybody keen to attend Lilian Too Suntec Talk on 16th Jan (sun) pls email me at
fren is letting go of her tix v.cheaply at only $55...thx =) (SOLD)

Btw, was at a shop earlier today...n the shop owner actually thought tt my leechie eyelashes r everyone has short eyelashes ;p sorry, but i'm not gonna reveal the brand of mascara tt i use cos they dont pay leechie endorsement fees ;p

When i told my leechie mum tt a fren asked me to dress more maturely to avoid attracting the attention of uncle-types looking for their little lolitas...she was like "if u dont dress up as a doll now...then when do u wanna dress up as one? wait till u r some obasan?"
well, i have a cool leechie mum...she rocks!!! ;p

Guess the latest cooling measures r kicking agent juz emailed me the latest reduced pricing for their project which was scheduled to b launched last tue...apparently, the developer fancied the lucky date on coming tues n pushed back the launch date...hindsight is always perfect they hav to reduce the pricing for this apparently lucky ;p

Leechie fav David Tao song ♥