Stuff That Most Guys Wouldn't Tell U? ;p

This is the blog entry tt u shldn't miss out on! I'm rather amused tt some frenz were delighted to see their names appear on my leechie blog...lol ;p i'm aware tt many of my guy frenz read this leechie blog...maybe i need to watch my leechie tongue abit? ;p but thx guys for the hilarious responses to my innocent questions on fb ;p u guys rockz!!! btw, not sure y many of my guy frenz tell me tt my broker is good-looking o.O even my usually cynical leechie mum says he's good-looking but abit short o.O" think he muz b v.happy to read this...or sad maybe? cos all these compliments came from guys n only 1 aunty (my cool leechie mum)...lol ;p not sure y...but somthg tells me tt he does read this leechie blog on n off at times...oops >.<" btw, i gotta say tt he didnt become my broker because of how he looks...he was introduced to me by my leechie dad o.O

Anyway, we were discussing abt Mr. n Ms. Right n Wrong n stuff...he was saying those complaint queens r a huge turn-off to guys...n i actually thot tt complaining has become a national past-time here? ;p so a leechie shld learn to whine lesser >.<" another type of gals which he categorized under Ms. Wrong r those who have alot of suitors n r sooooo fickle-minded...so i told him tt he can always go for an easier target...but he was saying tt most guys love the challenge of pursuing those pretty gals with many suitors! o.O another category would be the players/time-wasters...i still need help to identify this category...mr. broker said u juz need to give tt guy 2 years...if he still doesnt wanna marry u after 2 years...move on!

Then i posted a qn...given 2 ladies...one is an airhead...another one a nerd...which one would guys prefer? his reply was...which one looks prettier? lol ;p so the one on top of guys' list for Ms. Right would be physical attractiveness o.O i know i look n speak like an airhead...but i guess it's good tt som guys treat me as one...at least that allows me to learn more abt them...lol...perhaps they r too used to dating airheads? ;p the other day, a fren juz expressed his surprise when i reminded him of my profession...he kinda forgot...nvm, juz continue to treat me as an airhead ya ;p

Anyway, if u guys r interested in what a leechie defines as Mr. Right...here r some pointers...i cant really rem much of what i said after nursing a hangover...lol ;p
Common values
Someone who truly loves me for the person tt i am
Physical attractiveness
Confidence
Someone who is willing to spend time with me despite being busy
Security
Interesting person
Intellectual
Sense of humor
Care and concern
Commitment
Highly successful n ambitious guys r v.sexy ;p
Sensitive to my feelings

Broker asked abt the importance of having the same religion...told him tt religion is a sensitive topic tt we r taught to avoid...esp when i know tt we have different religions...lol ;p anyway, i grouped it under common values...but thinking abt it...i dont mind having a partner who has a different religion but he has to respect my choice of religion o.O btw, i used to hav a JC fren whose mum told him to juz follow his future wife's religion...i thought tt's rather sweet...but now i have frenz telling me tt their religion depends on tt of whichever gal tt they r dating...lol...meaning tt they'll follow a gal to church if she's a Christian but will switch over to being a Buddhist if they happen to date one...how versatile...lol ;p anyway, i'm a Buddhist/Taoist...juz spent the entire Vesak day visiting various temples (sorry tt i cant reveal which r the temples tt i usually visit cos i dont wish to invite stalkers...but those who hav seen me there will know...btw, a temple's event photographer took tons of candid shots of a leechie earlier this year...but not sure where these pics were posted)...v.tired @.@" anyway, i know many ppl share a common religion these days ---> $MONEY$ ;p

Sometimes i wonder y guys like my broker r still single? he's financially secure...good sense of humor...can hold interesting conversations...n guys say he's good-looking...looks like a good catch to many gals o.O but y is he still single? is he too picky? lol ;p btw, i gotta say tt this aint an advertisement to advertise abt my broker's availability...lol ;p but i can consider if he pays me to do so...lol ;p likewise, i always wonder why i'm still single >.<" my leechie mum attributes it to affinity or rather the lack of it o.O but now, at least i learnt tt i shld whine lesser n be less fickle-minded o.O"

Anyway, i have v.few female frenz...so dont bother to get closer to a leechie in the hope of getting to know more ladies ;p n most of my female frenz r happily married too =) likewise, i know alot of cute guys...but they r usually gay or happily married with kids...Jeff is the best example...which gal wouldnt fancy him? he's a group ceo, billionaire, damn damn good-looking (he's a dead ringer for a Taiwanese singer tt i used to fancy), talented, understands what women want, interesting, etc...he has tons of unwanted attention from many gals n he is happily married with kids...i always used to wonder how would his wife feel, knowing tt sooooooooooo many gals still fancy her hubby despite them knowing tt he's happily married? o.O

I love this line from Jeff: -> "My wife is above everything else." ♥ but this declaration from Jeff provoked v.strong comments from Michael n a heated argument ensued...haiz >.<" n leechie happened not to be around (was away at expo for seminar) when our dear guys were arguing on my fb wall =.=" but i gotta say tt Michael really has guts to make this comment -> "‎@Jeff, well I'm sure that is the same line you use when you talk to women. Either you're a wimp or you're henpecked." gosh...n there r som other comments unsuitable to be published here...cos this is a family-friendly blog with many teenagers viewing after all...so those who r interested can juz refer to the link "Trouble with modern couples who dun have time for each other" on my fb wall where u can view the argument in full...but i gotta warn tt som stuff there r NOT suitable for the young! >.<" btw, i love these quotes from Jeff ♥ -> "Showing a lack of respect is one of the surest ways to poison any relationship." n "I am more family oriented besides business. Friends, Family, colleagues, subordinates...and lots more all are above myself. sibling too bad i dont have any. if not they will be above me. everything in life is important and i always putting myself last. We have too many to juggle in life, daily routine. manage to balance is Time Management. Set what is important and what is priority. if you can draw out the clear picture and you know what you want for life, i m sure you will find the balance in life." n "@Michael, I dont flirt and sway or having affair out of my marital is because me and wife had gone thru a lot in our 20 years relationship. I learned to cherish her, nourish her, love and care for her because she gave in and compromise in our tough time." so sweet ♥...maybe now u'll understand why Jeff is sooooooooooo popular with ladies ya? ;p (btw, for the uninitiated, Jeff is a group ceo n Michael is a psychologist...so perhaps v.diff perspectives?)

Btw, i was watching part of an episode of "The Medical Touch" whereby this lady in her 30s suffered a bad stroke while she was pregnant...i saw how sweet the hubby was to her...then i started to wonder how many guys would have opt for a divorce under such circumstances? esp those guys who placed physical attractiveness right on top of their list for Ms. Right! =.="

Why do we desire things/ppl which r harder to get?cos of the challenge involved?haiz >.<"

"Its a blessing to give than take. To love than hate. To forgive than blame. Life would be simpler and happier." ~ Daniel

“Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.” ~ Anthony Robbins

"Never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still feel you can take it, never say you don't love that person anymore when you can't let go."

"每个人都有自己の 『爱情梦想』，只是在『残酷の 现实中难以实现』，所以当我们在最『伤心无助』の 时候，也许曾经希望能有一位『天使』陪我们『疗伤』，指引我们继续『往下走の 方向』。"

"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down . And someone who will carry you when you can't walk any longer ;) 很多人想和你一起乘坐豪华轿车，但你想要的是，如果豪华轿车没了，依然会和你搭乘公交车的人。"

This is sooo sweet ♥
"女：我不高，身材不好。
男：我要的不是模特。
女：我长得不漂亮。
男：我要的不是仙女。
女：我不会煮饭。
男：我要的不是厨师。
女：我学历很低。
男：我要的不是才女。
女：我的脾气不好。
男：我要的不是侍女。
女：那……你要的是什么啊？
男：我要的只是你，你懂吗?"


This is soooo romantic...but where is my soulmate?haiz >.<"


Haiz >.<"


Update:

Went to do my hair yest at this cozy salon at Holland V...well, not too cozy cos i was shivering from the powerful air-con >.<" i actually asked for wine color...but apparently my hair looks more of dark brown now? maybe i shld juz bring along a bottle of red wine to the salon on my next trip to show the stylist how the color of red wine shld look like! -.-" btw, this is the 2nd time tt i'm using Wella hair color...the first time was when i was modelling for Wella hair coloring workshop =) this salon used the O3 machine for hair treatment too...again, i was amused with the big shower cap thingy of the O3 machine...lol ;p i spent more than 3hrs there n i took up a hair package too o.O

The end product after spending more than 3hrs at the salon o.O how do i look? o.O the stylist was laughing at my crooked fringe saying tt it looked v.cute >.<"


Notice the cutie guy in the background? he's the color technican who did my hair coloring...he speaks with a taiwanese accent but is actually local...my leechie mum commented tt he looks v.familiar...well, he looks abit like Mediacorp artiste Yuan Shuai ;p he was trying to explain alot of hair stuff to me...i appreciate his kind sharing but my chinese aint too brilliant n most of what he said juz flew over my leechie head =.="


Btw, u might be wondering why didnt a leechie cover anything on the recent Audi Fashion Fest when most bloggers r blogging abt it...well, u can trust a leechie to be different ya ;p for a leechie who prefers to blog abt WP Rally, at least u can trust leechie to be able to hold a decent conversation abt general news instead of only commenting abt which dress is nice or not...lol ;p i guess my leechie vocab is rather limited n i dunno how to describe a nice dress or nice makeup in 10,000 different ways...to me, nice means nice...ugly means ugly...period! lol ;p call me an airhead if u want...but at least i still know what happens in the world around me today ;p anyway, i was nursing a bad tummyache so i skipped all the Audi Fashion Fest parties until last nite when i pop by Stereo for the Fashion TV fashion show which turned out to be more of an awards presentation...again, i was amused with the candid shots taken of a leechie by the event photographer...no idea where the pics would appear o.O" Harn was checking out the clothes on display n said candidly tt she wouldn't buy any of the designs...pls forgive her...fashion taste is hugely subjective ya ;p anyway, Harn was enjoying her new-found publicity...saying tt more ppl recognized her as a political candidate n it's a great way to get to know more ppl =) she was suggesting tt a leechie try tt too...but NO THANKS manz...i value my privacy too muchie...n i dont need ppl to debate abt which bag i'm carrying or my bimbotic poses...lol ;p but i was psycho-ing her to switch over to WP...lol ;p well, the chances of her winning would be increased by virtue of the sheer strength of the branding ;p anyway, we were hanging around the VIP area when she was amused to see a v.senior uncle partying there...lol...well, i cant imagine a leechie hanging out at clubs after i settle down o.O"

We were standing juz behind the mini-stage n had a good view of the dance performance o.O


One of the award winners receiving his prize from the ceo of Fashion TV


Why watching too muchie tv is bad for u ;p


U gotta watch this! ;p
Sorry...i cant resist not sharing this quote from Sherwin:
"When creating a cabinet and to avoid a wardrobe malfunction - one should place all the Kate Spade items onto another RACK...." lol ;p