I love leechie...n i dont give a shit if u dont!
I don't date losers!!!
U don't need to agree with me n I don't care if u don't !!!
Nobody ever sees my tears...no one gives a shit abt me...ppl juz wanna make use of me...that's all...i'm better off dead! :'( i'm sick of living...i'm sick of being despised...i'm sick of having nothing!!! :'( i juz wanna sleep for the rest of my damn life!!! i'm better off dead!!! :'(
U won't ignore me if I were some analyst or fund mgr or top CEO. But unfortunately, I'm not. U despise me cos I'm too lowly. I'm too poor, hideous, dumb, fat, illiterate n hav nothing so can't b compared to anyone u know. I'm of no value to u. U r a practical guy. I'm totally worthless to u. I'm not like ur dear lady who is a star analyst n appears on tv or like ur dear Cindy who is savvy to get to know atas ppl from everywhere. U deem me to b unqualified n unworthy of ur time. I'm even worse than a stray dog in ur eyes. Im the lowest lifeform that shldnt even b alive.
My life is totally worthless to u. U won't give a shit abt me even if I were to die right in front of u. Mayb u will only think tt I'm dirtying ur exp floor only
Emotional scars r the hardest to heal...i'm still sitting on my huge paper losses...i muz always rem this saying from Digital: "if u listen to anal-yst, u'll be picking up cardboards in ur retirement!"
I have nothing n nobody has given me anything...whatever i have right now is what i fought hard for! we r living in a damn practical society where ppl r only interested to make use of u n when they deemed u to b of no value to them , they dump u like shit!!! i may sound bitter...but i grew up learning the hard way that nobody will despise u if u r rich...tt's how our damn superficial society works! sad but true facts of this damn practical urban jungle!
Mayb I shld go get a driving license n become taxi driver then mayb he won't despise me so much!!!but driving's soooo stressful n it's so hard to get a driving license here! mayb i shld consider becoming a factory worker? juz assemble stuff...no need to use much of my airhead brains...then mayb he wont despise me so much eh? o.O i hav another brilliant idea...mayb i shld apply to b a janitor at his bank...then i can announce to the entire world tt i'm a shiti-banker too ;p really sounds v.atas ya =) then i muz carry my prada bags to the janitor's room so tt i wont look out of place with the ladies there o.O"
He claims that he has a tortured mind from reading my smses...but he doesnt realize how horrible he made me feel! he has outraged my modesty on numerous occasions by either swearing at me or pointing his middle finger at me! he made me feel like worthless trash! how can he possibly b suffering from a tortured mind when he happily ignores me n happily dates his ladies n hangs out with his inner circle of atas frenz n lives his glamorous life?!
He has already condemned me as incorrigible, bad, hideous, poor, dumb, fat n evil monster who cant b compared to anyone he knows! He despies n hates me so much that he wants me dead! He treats me like worthless trash n i'm only deemed to b qualified to jump off from his building!!! I was almost knocked down by a car...but v.much to his disappointment, i'm still not dead!!! i'm only deemed to be qualified to jump off from his building!
From the restaurant last nite. Nobody bought me any flowers :'(
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(http://sg.news.yahoo.com/grass-really-greener-154500241.html)
"Is the grass really greener?
Handbag.com – Tue, Jan 31, 2012
Discontent is a dirty word. Thanks to an unending barrage of adverts depicting smiling, laughing couples, and the Hollywood machine churning out one rom-com after another, we're constantly being presented with ideals of 'perfection'. But can any of us honestly admit our love lives are as perfect and wonderful as the characters' on the silver screen? Hardly. And would any of us admit it? Probably not.
But we can't blame this on Hollywood entirely. If you're bored in your long-term relationship, just seeing your newly loved-up mate glowing with happiness can lead you down a dark and murky path of self-questioning: 'Why isn't my bloke that romantic? Is he even right for me?' Or if you're single, your friends in long-term relationships - where there are hugs on tap and plans with parents - can leave you feeling lonely and unloved. Yet behind closed doors, those very friends may well be bored to tears with their familiar routine. This is 'Grass is Greener' syndrome, and unfortunately, it's human nature.
"It's instinctive for women to want to feel we are with the best possible mate", says Kate Taylor, resident relationship expert at match.com. "We have so much choice in our lives today that we can get confused and look to our friends for reassurance or direction. We think, 'Is she happier that me? Should I be following her path? Would that make me happier?'
But as Kate notes, it's easy to only look at the bright side of our friends' lives. Lucy, a 24 year-old administrator, says that she became disenchanted with her own relationship after continually comparing it to her best mate's seemingly blissful love-life. "Every weekend with my boyfriend was the same. We'd go to the pub, then maybe shopping. Sometimes we'd have friends over. All the while my friend would tell me all about the overblown romantic gestures her bloke had made, and all the wonderful places he had taken her, and I started to think that perhaps my boyfriend wasn't the one for me. Surely if he really loved me he'd be doing the same things?"
In the end, Lucy and her boyfriend split up, and Lucy admits that she'd rather have stayed with her boyfriend as they were than be single now: "I thought being single would give me the thrill of thinking that 'the right one' might be around the corner, but instead I just miss what I had."
Conversely, it's easy to see why couples can fall foul of the same thinking about their single mates - there's more approval to be had from the opposite sex when you're single, you get chatted up more and you flirt more than people in relationships do. "Hearing singleton's tales of wild weekends can make previously blissful couples feel like their youth is passing them by," says Kate. "'I should be having wild-romps on yachts! Not spending the weekend comparing paint charts!'". And this thinking can cause you to pick fights with your man, partly out of discontent - you focus purely on the negative - but partly, Kate says, because you might feel you have 'nothing to lose' because if you split up, you'd be single again, which might be what you actually want. But of course, says Kate, "Singletons rarely admit to having long lonely weekends in front of the TV with only a bag of Doritos for company. Couples hear a skewed version of events."
So how can we find a happy balance? If we're constantly eyeing up everyone else's love lives, what chance do we have at ever being satisfied?
While feelings of envy can be potentially destructive (as was the case with Lucy), Kate believes it can be helpful and motivational, providing it jolts you into realising you need to make a change. "Every time you find yourself feeling envious of someone, dig down until you find what it is you wish you were doing, and do it! Envy can be a brilliant barometer of your secret yearnings, and you can use it as a catalyst to help you make some positive changes in your own life."
Of course, this isn't to say you should ditch your boyfriend in pursuit of a hedonistic single life, or jump into a relationship with the first willing fella that comes along. It means taking the time to identify what your needs really are, and making sure that each is being fulfilled in a way that balances out with the others.
Remember life is not a film
Even the most realistic chick flicks can paint a very rose-tinted picture of relationships. Remember that as you're sat in the cinema seething because your boyfriend would never stand in the rain for hours / fight a swarm of village banditos/sacrifice his Xbox for you, every other girl there is thinking the same.
Remember that everybody rows
Yes, during those wonderful heady stages of a new relationship, it's all pleases and thank yous and utmost consideration. But as a couple settle into comfortable familiarity, bickering over whose turn it is to cook can overtake those whispered sweet nothings. This is the natural progression of relationships, and just because John and Sally look like love personified when they're out in public, it doesn't mean they don't also argue about wet towels left on the bed.
Remember why you are where you are
If you're single, be patient: "There's someone out there for everyone", says Kate. So enjoy the 'me-time' you have while you wait for that someone - really get to know yourself before sharing your life with someone else. If you're coupled-up, it's because there was something about your bloke that attracted you to him when you met. Focus on that and do things together that remind you of why you fell for each other in the first place. Of course, if you're really unhappy, it may well be time to join the single ranks, but make sure you're doing it for the right reasons, and not because you've got unrealistic ideas about love."
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