You Can Win

Wishing everyone here a happy Easter...ppl may b curious what a leechie has been up to this Easter weekend...i didnt go for a short trip...didnt attend any happening party...didn't attend the Michael Kors party even though i was invited...little bit of regrets that i missed out on such a happening event when i saw the pics frenz took o.O i stayed in to finish reading this book which a friend lent me: "You Can Win" by Shiv somthg...to b honest, it has been donkey moons since i last finished reading a book...ya, i have many of Joey Yap's fengshui books...but i dont rem reading them from cover to cover...oops, sorry Joey...they r still somewhere in my room...still in brand new condition...many with Joey's autographs on them...lol...Joey's such a prolific writer that i will have more new books to add to my Joey Yap collection each year...

There r many concepts in this book which might been covered in some other motivational/ self-help books...but reading it refresh n reinforce those ideas...pretty useful =) i took plenty of notes n snapshots of impt pages as i read...btw, i was a good student when i was in sch...(someone juz commented that it's all As on my certs n i was like "Of course!")...

Some interesting concepts from the book:

To want success as badly as air!

If u darent try anythg for fear of failure n think u havent fail cos u didnt do anythg...u have failed

Fren revealed the secret after i rushed to finish this book...u can google the title n download the PDF version...guess i wouldnt have finished reading this book if i knew there's a pdf version avail...that's juz me...i dont read most of the books i bot...there was a period of time when i tried to hang out at bookstores to force myself to read...

"太好的分享 - 李嘉誠語錄：

1， 人窮的時候，要少在家裡，多在外面。富有的時候，要多在家裡，少在外面。這就是生活的藝術。

2，窮得時候，錢要花給別人，富的時候，錢要花給親人和愛人！ 很多人，都做顛倒了。 

3，窮的時候，不要計較，對別人要好，這叫人窮志不窮。富的時候，要學會讓別人對自己好。自己對別人更好。學會捨得! 這些奇妙的生活方式，很少人能夠明白。

4.窮的時候一定要大方，富的時候，就不要擺闊了。生命已經恢復了簡單，已經回到了寧靜。

5.年輕是最大的富有，但要倍加珍惜時光，貧窮無需害怕。懂得培養自己，懂得什麼是貴重物品，懂得該投資什麼，懂得該在哪裡節約，這是整個過程的關鍵。

6.別亂買衣服，少買一點，但是可以買幾件很有品味的。 多在外面吃飯，要吃就請客，要請，就請比自己更有夢想的、更有思想、更努力的人。

7. 一旦生活需要的錢已經夠了，最大的快樂，就是用你的收入，完成你的夢想，去放開你的翅膀大膽地實現，超越夢想! 去讓生命經歷不一樣的旅程。"

"【李嘉诚深圳演讲】为什么你一直没有成就？

因为你随波逐流，近墨者黑、不思上进，分钱没有、死爱面子！
因为你畏惧你的父母、你听信你亲戚、你没有主张、你不敢一个人做决定。
你观念传统、只想打工赚点钱结婚生子，然后生老病死、走你父母一模一样的路。
因为你天生脆弱、脑筋迟钝只想做按班就部的工作。
因为你想做无本的生意，你想坐在家里等...

出人头地法则：

1、不要只听 “亲朋好友” 的话，世界上 99% 的人都是平凡人，他们的建议只会让你成为平凡的人。

2、不要只是 “正确做事”，重要的是 “做正确的事” 。

3、不要只交 “志趣相投” 的朋友 ; 否则你只能看到 “一半” 的世界。

4、不要只是 “准备好了等机会”，要主动去 “制造机会” 才能捷足先登！

不要试图追求安全感，特别是年轻的时候，
周遭环境从来都不会有绝对的安全感，
如果你觉得安全了，很有可能开始暗藏危机。

真正的安全感，来自你对自己的信心，是你每个阶段性目标的实现。
而真正的归属感，在于你的内心深处，对自己命运的把控，
因为你最大的对手 : 永远都是自己。:)"

Frenz started asking me abt the title of this book after i posted up this snapshot of a page from the book...

Som ppl only know how to laugh at others' expense n to derive laughter from others' misery...but they dont see this irony...i will always rem the kindness that some frenz have shown me...ppl usually only rem how u make them feel...i'm a simple person...if u r nice to me, i'll b nicer to u...

Those uncles who love to wear v.tight-fitting tees to show off the biceps n pecs might not b aware that the beer belly is a more prominent sight? this ab-hancer shld go well with those tight fitting tees ya ;p