Love What You Do

Learnt somthg new from Joey Yap's Christmas Message this year: "Love what you do"! Actually the year end is always a scarry period of the year for me...to review what i have or have not achieved this year and how can i do better in the coming year...btw, i read an article in biz times abt the importance of "who u know", "what u know" n "how u carry urself"...things that i can improve on...pls help me to be a better me in the coming year! Another quote from Joey Yap: "This is because you are busy looking for an easier way to do something. You wanna get something done? Easy - fall in love with the "process", not just the "outcome"."

What a year it has been...I've travelled to quite a few cities this year...n i met some conman who spun a big web of lies n i got my heart broken as well...fortunately he didnt get his way n i didnt lose anything valuable other than my time...silly me thought i had finally met the man I've been waiting for but he turned out to be a total nightmare! i've proved that there's still somthg between my ears ;p the entire episode wouldn't be out of place in a movie...but it really happened to me in reality...i dont need more drama in my life...what i've learnt is that a leopard will never ever change its spots if we were to give it any slight opportunity...that's life...there's a reason y we meet certain ppl...for our life's lessons...perhaps i'm too honest for my own good? Dont ever take my kindness as weakness!

Life's always so ironic...y do we tend to hanker after ppl who seem so out of our reach? juz like how some guys who keep sending me smses...my replies r juz out of basic courtesy...but i know deep in my heart, i wont fancy them...they r juz not my type...i'm sorry...a fren once commented that i might have make my life difficult for myself by having a certain idea of ideal partner in my mind...i'm not a perfectionist n i dont expect someone perfect...but at least, the basic criteria have to be met ya...

I'm thankful for the new frenz, that i've met this year, whom i can learn from...appreciate everyone who's here in my life journey...i've always maintained that age is nvr an issue when it comes to friendship...i have some frenz who r more senior in terms of their age n life experiences but r so cool...check out the pics of two of the youngest frenz that i've met this year ---> Bailey and Brownie =)

Wishing everyone here Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Bailey looks so cute! I was quite tempted to kidnap him but the owner said he will come after me if i were to do that...lol...

Check out his cutie pose o.O

Mr. Bailey sitting pretty here ;p

Frenz asked if this is a toy...Looking at this pic. For a moment I thot my hand looks like its strangling Bailey but he looks so blissfully being strangled in this pic. Lol ;p

My leechie mum said Brownie looks like a toy n asked y im hugging it so tightly in this pic o.O

The yoga master asked me to zip my mouth so I told him I forgot to bring the zipper out ;p Then he saw me drinking gong Cha n asked if I think I'm not fat enough. N I replied that I'm juZ adding to the bulk so he has more work to do o.O

Thx for all the kind invitations but i dont go out on New Year's eve...i always stay in to write pages n pages of new year resolutions every year...it's juz me...

Gosh...i juz learnt today that one of my fengshui masters passed away more than a year ago...it seemed so much like yesterday that i sat in his class with all the fengshui terminologies swimming around in my head...life is fragile...part of the reason y i'm shocked is cos he looked healthy n his fb acct is still alive even today o.O

I'm back to my kickboxing classes after a break of almost 2months...it can b tiring but i still like to kick n punch...n this is one of the current tracks used...i need to be stronger in every aspect of my life!!!

Rags-to-riches stories r always so sexy...mayb that could b part of the reason y silly me fell for that conman's loads of bullshit? do take a look at this inspiring article...n think twice n thrice before u despise that lowly blue collar worker! i always tell ppl that i'm blue collar...even when i'm wearing collarless on most days...nvm if u cant appreciate my wit...but i'm pretty sure that i didnt let my secondary sch english teacher down... (http://sg.finance.yahoo.com/news/20-inspiring-rags-to-riches-stories-181933596.html)

"20 Inspiring Rags-to-Riches Stories

By Max Nisen and Eric Goldschein | Business Insider – Sat, Dec 29, 2012 2:23 AM SGT

In a time of rising inequality and sluggish growth, rags to riches stories are harder than ever to come by. Indeed, many of the richest people in the world were born into their wealth. 

That makes it even more essential that we remember the people who started with nothing, and through hard work, talent, grit, and a bit of luck, managed to rise to the very top.

These 20 stories remind us that it's possible to overcome just about anything, from parents passing away, to extreme poverty, and more. 

Maria Das Gracas Silva Foster escaped a Brazilian shantytown to become Petrobras' first female CEO

The current head of Brazilian oil giant Petrobras spent her childhood in Morro do Adeus, an extremely poor neighborhood that became a shantytown. Her mother worked constantly and her father was an alcoholic. She collected cans and paper to make extra money. 

She started as an intern at Petrobras in 1978, but broke through barriers to become the company's first female head of field engineering. Bloomberg reports that her tireless work ethic has earned her the nickname Caveirao, for the armored vehicles police use to clean up crime ridden Brazilian neighborhoods. She became the company's first female CEO in February. 

Do Won Chang worked three jobs to make ends meet before starting Forever 21

Do Won Chang and his wife, Jin Sook, moved to America from Korea in 1981. When they first arrived, Do Won was forced to work three jobs at the same time to support them, as a janitor, a gas station attendant, and in a coffee shop. Eventually, they were able to open their first clothing store in 1984.

That one store grew into Forever 21, which pioneered fast fashion and is now a multi-national, 480 store empire that generates around $3 billion in sales a year. It's a family business, with the couple's daughters Linda and Esther helping to run the company.

Harold Simmons grew up in a shack without electricity and became a multi-billionaire

Now a billionaire several times over, Harold Simmons grew up in the extremely rural town of Golden, Texas, where he lived in a "shack" that had no plumbing or electricity. He still managed to make it to the University of Texas, and graduated Phi Beta Kappa with a B.A. and masters in Economics.

His first venture was a series of drugstores, the first of which was almost entirely financed with a loan. That became a 100 store chain that he sold to Eckerd for $50 million. From there he went on to become a master of the corporate buyout. He currently owns 6 companies traded on the NYSE, including Titanium Metals Corporation, the world's largest producer of titanium.  

Zdenek Bakala fled communist Czechoslovakia with only $50 and is now a coal magnate

In 1980, when he was 19 years old, Bakala fled communist Czechoslovakia with a $50 dollar bill wrapped in plastic wrap hidden in a sandwich. He made it to Lake Tahoe, where he washed dishes at a Harrah's casino.

He eventually got an undergraduate degree from UC Berkeley and an MBA from Dartmouth. He went into banking, and eventually back to his home company, opening Credit Suisse First Boston's first officer in Prague after the Wall fell. presides over a coal company with a $2.52 billion market cap and eight production sites across Central Europe, which broke ground on the first privately owned coal mine in Central Europe since 1992.  

George Soros survived the Nazi occupation of Hungary to become one of the world's most successful investors

George Soros survived the Nazi occupation of Hungary after his father paid a government employee, whose Jewish wife he had helped hide in the countryside, to let him pose as his godson. After the war, he escaped the country, which had come under communist rule, in 1947, to stay with relatives in London. Soros put himself through the London School of Economics by working as a waiter and railway porter. 

After graduating, Soros sold goods at a souvenir shop before writing managing directors at merchant banks in London until he finally got a job. That was the beginning of a long and enormously successful career in finance, including his famous bet against the British pound in 1992, which earned him more than a billion dollars in profit in one swoop. 

Guy Laliberté ate fire on the streets before introducing Cirque du Soleil to the world

The Canadian-born Laliberté began his circus career busking on the streets: playing accordion, walking on stilts and eating fire. He gambled by bringing a successful troupe from Quebec to the Los Angeles Arts Festival in 1987, with no return fare. The bet paid off, and the circus group was eventually brought to Las Vegas, where they became the world famous Cirque du Soleil we know today.

Today, Laliberté is the CEO of Cirque, a professional poker player and space tourist, with a total net-worth of $2.5 billion.

John Paul DeJoria lived in his car before John Paul Mitchell Systems took off

As a first generation American, DeJoria had it rough from the beginning. His German and Italian parents divorced when he was two, and he sold Christmas cards and newspapers to help support his family before he turned 10. He was eventually sent to live in a foster home in Los Angeles.

DeJoria spent some time as an L.A. gang member before joining the military. After trying his hand as an employee for Redken Laboratories, he took a $700 dollar loan and created John Paul Mitchell Systems. He hawked the company's shampoo door-to-door, living out of his car while doing so. But the quality of the product could not be denied, and now JPM Systems is worth over $900 million annually. He also created Patron Tequila and has a hand in a variety of industries, from diamonds to music.

Ursula Burns grew up in a housing project on Manhattan's Lower East Side and now runs Xerox

Before the Lower East Side was cool, it was a hub for gangs. Burns was raised by her single mother in a housing project there. Her mother ran a daycare center out of her home and ironed shirts so that she could afford to send Ursula to Catholic school. She went to NYU, and from there became an intern at Xerox.

She's now Xerox's CEO and chairwoman. Burns is the first African-American woman to lead a Fortune 500 Company.

Howard Schultz grew up in the Brooklyn projects before becoming CEO of Starbucks

Schultz grew up in the Bayview projects of Canarsie, Brooklyn. He always wanted to climb "over the fence" and go beyond the lifestyle provided by his truck-driving father. Despite destitution, he excelled at sports and earned a football scholarship to the University of Northern Michigan.

After graduating with a degree in communications, Schultz went to work for Xerox before discovering a small coffee shop called Starbucks. Enamored with the coffee, he left Xerox to become the company's chief executive in 1987. After beginning with 60 shops, Starbucks now has over 16,000 outlets worldwide, giving Schultz a net worth of $1.5 billion. He even went on hiatus and came back as CEO to lead Starbucks out of a decline.

Li Ka-shing quit school at 15 to work in a plastics factory and is now the world's richest East Asian

The family of Li Ka-shing fled mainland China for Hong Kong in 1940, and Li's father died of tuberculosis when  he was just 15. Quitting school to work to support his family, Li made plastics and later plastic flowers for U.S. export.

By 1950 Li was able to start his own company, Cheung Kong Industries. While at first manufacturing plastics, the company later moved into real estate. Similarly, Li expanded his ownership of different companies, and today has his hand in banking, cellular phones, satellite television, cement production, retail outlets, hotels, domestic transportation, airports, electric power, steel production, ports and shipping, and investing in cool apps, among other industries.

Francois Pinault was a high school dropout who now leads luxury goods group PPR

Pinault quit high school in 1947 after being teased for his poor background. He joined his family's timber trading business and in the 1970s began buying up smaller firms. His ruthless business tactics — including slashing jobs and selling his timber company only to buy it back at a fraction of the cost when the market crashed — gave him a reputation as a "predator." He had similar tactics in the real estate business, and did well buying French junk bonds and taking government money to save businesses from bankruptcy.

His self-made worth helped him start PPR, a luxury goods group that sells brands like Gucci and Stella McCartney. At one point the richest man in France, Pinault and his family are now worth an estimated $13 billion, and have historic homes around the world.

Leonardo Del Vecchio was an orphaned factory worker whose eyeglasses empire today makes Ray-Bans and Oakleys

Del Vecchio was one of five children who could not be supported by his widowed mother. After growing up in an orphanage, he went to work in a factory making molds for auto parts and eyeglass frames, where he lost part of his finger.

At 23, he opened his own molding shop. That eyeglass frame shop expanded to the world's largest maker of sunglasses and prescription eyeware. Luxottica makes brands like Ray-Ban and Oakley, with 6,000 retail shops like Sunglass Hut and LensCrafters. His estimated net worth is now $11.5 billion dollars. 

Kirk Kerkorian went from boxer and Royal Air Force pilot to Las Vegas mega-resort owner

Kerkorian, who learned English on the streets, dropped out of 8th grade to become a boxer. His family was a casualty of the Great Depression, and Kerkorian went about finding skills to help bring income home. He became a daredevil pilot for the Royal Air Force during World War II, delivering supplies over the Atlantic on routes that would crash one in four planes. 

From the money he made running supplies, Kerkorian became a high roller on the craps table and eventually a real estate magnate in Las Vegas: he bought The Flamingo and built The International and MGM Grand, stalwarts of the Vegas scene. He's worth a few billion dollars today. 

Sheldon Adelson is another Las Vegas hotels magnate who tried his hand at a few industries

Adelson grew up in tenement housing in Massachusetts, where he shared a bedroom with his parents and three siblings.  His father was a Lithuanian taxi driver and his mother had a knitting store. When he was 12 years old, he started selling newspapers and a few years later ran a vending machine scheme on the same corner.

Adelson tried his hand at a few different industries, from packing hotel toiletries to mortgage brokering. His biggest break came from developing a computer trade show. He turned that wealth into a purchase of the Sands Hotel & Casino, and later the mega-resort The Venetian.

Ingvar Kamprad was born in a small village in Sweden and created a mail-order business that became IKEA

Kamprad lived the farm life growing up. But he always had a knack for business, buying matches in bulk from Stockholm to sell to his neighbors. He later expanded to fish, Christmas decorations, and pens.

Not satisfied with the small stuff, Kamprad took money from his father (a reward for good grades) and created a mail-order business that eventually became IKEA (the name comes from his initials plus those of his village and family farm). Furniture became the company's biggest seller, and Kamprad's use of local manufacturers kept his prices low. Once one of the world's richest men, his net worth has fallen recently to a an estimated $3 billion.

Roman Abramovich was an orphan who turned an expensive wedding gift into an oil empire

After his parents died when he was just four, the Russian Abramovich was raised by his uncle and grandmother. Abramovich got his first break from an expensive wedding gift from his in-laws. He dropped out of college to pursue his entrepreneurial interests, which at first included selling plastic ducks out of an apartment in Moscow.

He managed a take over of oil giant Sibneft at a bargain price in 1995. He continued to flip his investments into even larger acquisitions, including Russian Aluminum and steelmaker Evraz Group. Over the years Abramovich has been accused of shady dealings, from paying out bribes and protection money to having a role in the gang feuds over aluminum smelters. It seems that being ruthless has paid off for the billionaire: he now owns the largest private yacht in the world, as well as a ton of other cool stuff. He's also the owner of the Chelsea Football Club. 

Richard Desmond went from living above a garage to creating an empire that published magazines like Penthouse

Desmond grew up the son of a single mother after his parents divorced. The two of them lived above a garage, during which time Desmond described himself as "very fat and very lonely." He quit school at 14 to focus on being a drummer, working as a coat-checker to help pay bills. Though he never became rich from his own musical talents, he later opened his own record shops.

Eventually Desmond published his first magazine, International Musician and Recording World. The Desmond magazine empire would expand to publications like a British version of Penthouse and Ok!, a worldwide favorite. He now owns publications around the globe and is involved in philanthropic work. 

J.K. Rowling lived on welfare before creating the Harry Potter franchise

In the early 1990s, Rowling had just gotten divorced and was living on welfare with a dependent child. She completed most of the first "Harry Potter" book in cafes, as walking around with her daughter, Jessica, was the best way to get her to sleep.

The "Harry Potter" franchise has become a worldwide success and J.K. Rowling is now worth an estimated $1 billion.

Before Sam Walton founded Wal-Mart, he milked cows and sold magazines in Oklahoma

Walton's family lived on a farm in Oklahoma during the Great Depression. In order to make ends meet, he helped his family out by milking the cow and driving the milk out to customers. He also delivered newspapers and sold magazine subscriptions.

By 26, he was managing a variety store after graduating from the University of Missouri with a B.A. in economics. He used $5,000 from the army and a $20,000 loan from his father-in-law to buy a Ben Franklin variety store in Arkansas. He expanded the chain, and then went on to found Wal-Mart and Sam's Club. He died in 1992, leaving the company to his wife and children. 

Oprah Winfrey turned a life of hardship into inspiration for a multi-billion-dollar empire

Oprah spent the first six years of her life living with her grandmother wearing dresses made out of potato sacks. After being molested by two members of her family and a family friend, she ran away from home at age 13. At 14, her newborn child died shortly after he was born. She went back to live with her mother, but it wasn't until her mother sent her to live with her father that she turned her life around.

She got a full scholarship to college, won a beauty pageant —where she was discovered by a radio station — and the rest is history. The Oprah name became an empire, and according to Forbes she is worth $2.7 billion."

First Anniversary Party of Red Carpet Champagne

Was on my way to the Tiger Beer party when Peter informed me abt this First Anniversary Party of Red Carpet Champagne at Millenia Walk...this was the first time that i stepped into this bar...nice Xmas atmosphere here with some staff dressed up as Santarinas...nice place to chill out with frenz...we had quite a few complimentary beers n processco n light bites before our frenz left...this party was definitely way better than the Tiger Beer party at F1 Pit building which we headed to later...n i always thought that VC stands for venture capitalists...but it turned out that the VC being discussed is the initials of a brand of champagne...lol...

My party look o.O

Party atmosphere at Red Carpet Champagne

They even have their own champagne glass...cool B-)

Santa looked like he drank quite a bit...n kept repeating to me that my dress looks v.nice...lol...

Santarinas performing on stage

This pic that Michelle sent me at 7.30pm showed the relatively empty scene at the Tiger Beer party...I reached only at abt 11.30pm

Asahi Silver Beat Party at One On The Bund

Pop by the Asahi Silver Beat Party at One On The Bund...the last time i was at One On The Bund was earlier in March this year for the Takidashi event in remembrance of the Japanese earthquake last year...this place brings back alot of memories...

Saw a few familiar faces...was telling Brian that it's not surprising to see quite a few Japanese at this event cos it's a Japanese beer after all...

Getting ready for the party...my leechie mum asked how come there was no one to pick me up from home to go to the party o.O

Big Xmas tree at the entrance of Fullerton Bay Hotel

Live band

With Brian at the party...

Someone at the party told me that the beer tastes better when served with a slice of lemon...

Bar counter at the party

Leadership of Startup Ventures: Avoiding 8 Common Pitfalls by Philip N Morgan

Sat thru the talk by Philip N Morgan this evening...juz wanna share some notes that i took...he's so humble...so diff from some stuck-up yaya folks...

"Pitfalls
-Acting like boss n becoming isolated
-Pursuing investments rather than revenues
-Failing to do most basic research
-Assuming we all know y we r here
-Engaging inferior talents n vendors
-Letting ur leadership become ur lifestyle

1) Behaving as the leader is better than acting like one
B humble. Avoid delusions of grandeur
Ur startup crusade may not b shared by all
Build the right culture. Always set a good example
Demonstrate tt u can roll ur sleeves up

2) find customers. Not investors
Customers validate ur model n offering
Customers don't dilute ur biz stake
Customers offer recurring revenues
Better to have Investors queuing behind customers

3) balance ur optimism with a good doze of realism
Avoid delusions tt it's ur destiny to succeed
Refine n monitor ur dashboard n metrics
Don't over promise. In fact don't promise at all
Misplaced optimism can kill a young venture

4) mentoring is better than meddling
Avoid temptation to micromanage every aspect
Encourage n reward knowledge sharing
Let ur team teach u. Always b learning
Foster a culture where risks/failures r not hidden

5) do ur homework before u embark on anythg new
Due diligence googling can save alot of grief
Try to identify ur key opportunities n risks
Background knowledge underpins any negotiation
Carefully research new initiatives n deals

6) assuming we all know y we r here
Team communication r vital as a venture grows
Highlight factors for success n ur expectations
Develop clear roadmap for the products/services
B seen to eat ur own dog food!

7) focus on working with the best talents b vendors
Recruit talents who r smarter than u
Surround urself with experts
Only hire when u must. No warm bodies
Consider if u can tap key skills without hiring

8) ur startup shld b ur passion. Not ur lifestyle
B humble n ask lots of qns. Avoid vanity
Live a balanced lifestyle. Work is only one aspect
B respected as an ethical custodian of ur role
If ur startup fails what will u have gained?

Leadership is lonely. Build support network
Ppl often tell u what they think u wanna hear
Don't b seduced by flattery ur Role attracts
Stay grounded n avoid being excitable in a drama
Work out how the magic trick is actually performed"

This is me!

Som ppl aint worthy of my efforts...

From the bottom of my leechie heart!

Launch of Chivas Real Friends at Zirca

12.12.12...what a special date...so special that many brands decide to launch their new products on this evening...i rushed to 3 different events in one evening...after my starbucks frap, i rushed over to Brand's launch event of RubyCollagen held at The Third Space...braved the rain with the aid of Gina's brolly n finally found the venue...lol...

Then rushed over to Zirca for the launch party of Chivas Real Friends...was just in time to watch the Chivas clip...the gals had popcorns there...served with Chivas of course...

Last stop of the evening...Wild Angels event at China One...had a fun nite out...

With the models at China One...Angie sent us pics that she took with these models...so here's my version ;p 

Michael summed it up best by saying that "ppl who live in glass houses shldnt b throwing stones" ;p

I didn't realize that my neighbourhood has transformed to a more atas place. JuZ walked into the newly renovated shopping mall. They even use fragrance branding, v. Pleasing to my cultured nose. Even the mix of eatery n shops there have upgraded. I only bot my fav gongcha. I crossed the street n saw this "Gangnam Style" hair salon. Not too sure if Psy would b too amused. Guess my lifestyle is such that most places near my place would b closed by the time I reach home so I have no idea that my neighbourhood looks so atas now o.O Some ppl in office attire stared at my tee n shorts. I look outta place in my own neighbourhood? btw, the atas office ppl work in the atas neighbourhood that i stay at...

I mentioned this quote to mr. HH last year but he dismissed it as totally out of wack!!!

Cosplayers at EOY Cosplay Festival 2012 at Marina Barrage

Interesting to see so many cosplayers gathered here in their full costumes. It had rained earlier in the day. Despite the heat, they gamely posed for shutterbugs who came armed with an assortment of photographic devices. But I can imagine them sweating under the hot sun. I have been having dizzy spells recently so didn't stay long here. All these pics here were captured with my trusty Iphone. Frankly, I'm usually done with my shots by the time those guys get their dslr ready to capture the scene. oops...Lol ;p

Based on my observations, u need to look really pretty or cool if u wanna pose alone...otherwise, i suggest gathering a group of frenz to cosplay together with u...safety in numbers...lol...

Check out her huge bow o.O

Power Ranger trying to act cool? o.O

What's that creature on his back? o.O

This cosplayer's really v. on...he quickly put away the bubble tea that he was drinking n got into his pose when he saw me approaching...v.professional ;p

Another gongfu pose

I asked the gal on the right to join in this pic when i saw her taking pics...her gloves r so cute ;p

Sultry look o.O

Cool B-)

The gal on the right was walking around with her cutie luggage bag (can u spot it at the bottom right hand corner of this pic?)

Pretty in purple

Cool...but doesn't his arm ache after staying in this pose for soooo long? o.O

This cosplayer was walking around carrying this heavy-looking blade o.O

Adrian saw this pic n thought it was leechie in pink...lol...sorry to disappoint everyone here...leechie was juz part of the audience...not in cosplay costume ;p

I love her red hair n attitude B-)

EOY Cosplay Festival 2012 at Marina Barrage

Rushed back from JPO in time to catch some of the cosplayers at play at Marina Barrage...it was fun following the cosplay parade ;p