Attended this Tiger Crystal Freeze event organized by Lifestyleasia.com at Artery last fri nite...the last time i was at Artery was more than 2yrs ago when i organized an event there...how time flies...guess Artery has undergone major renovation since...
Enjoying my tiger crystal liquid nitrogen drink ;p
Came across this interesting article posted by a fren...it first appeared in Simply Her mag (http://divaasia.com/article/4650)
"A long-lasting happy marriage takes more than just understanding the needs of your spouse; it goes beyond mere acceptance of your spouse’s emotional and physiological makeup and learning to meet his or her needs.
After years of counselling married couples, American clinical psychologist and marriage counsellor Willard F. Harley, Jr concluded that the top five needs of men and women fell into 10 categories:
Her Top 5 Needs
1 Affection Women often associate affection with security, comfort, protection and approval. When a man shows his wife affection, he’s sending subliminal messages to her that he’ll take care of her, stand by her and protect her.
2 Conversations When women have intimate conversations with their spouse, it reassures them and make them feel loved and supported.
3 Honesty and openness A women needs to be able to trust her husband completely. When a man doesn’t maintain an honest, open communication with his wife, he undermines her trust.
4 Financial support Many women marry for the financial security their spouse provides.
5 Family commitment A woman needs her husband to be a good father and to be committed to the family.
His Top 5 Needs
1 Sexual fulfilment Most women can go without sex for months, but for men, it’s pure torture. In fact, they would probably do it all the time if they had their way.
2 Recreational companionship Even after marriage, couples should make an effort to involve themselves in their spouses’ activities.
3 An attractive spouse A man needs a wife who looks good to him.
4 Domestic support Most men like having domestic chores like cooking and cleaning done for them.
5 Admiration Men want their wives to be proud of them. So when you tell your husband that he’s wonderful, it motivates him to achieve more."
-------------------------------------------------------------------
Btw, leechie saw this phrases on my fren's msn status:
"我将于茫茫人海中寻找我唯一之灵魂伴侣,得之 我幸,不得 我命"
"幸福是靠自己去爭取的~不管是友情或愛情~~錯過了就沒有了..."
I got him to explain the first phrase for those of us who r not too familiar with chinese, the first phrase simply says tt he's looking for his one and only soulmate amongst the crowd...if he manages to find the One, then he's lucky...if otherwise, tt's his fate...
The first part of the 2nd phrase simply tells us tt our happiness is dependent on us!We gotta fight for our happines ya...doesn't matter if it's frendship or love...once u miz it, it's gone forever...o.O"
Check out this funny clip on a pretty korean school teacher...hang on for the surprise awaiting u ;p
This by-invitation only party was held at Mercedes-Benz Centre in Alexandra. After Daniel parked his car at the basement carpark, there were fleets of Mercedes queueing up at the entrance of the building...fetching us up to the higher levels where the party was held...well, arrival in style! =)
And there was this beautiful Mercedes at the door...of course, i couldnt resist not taking pics with it...lol...
The only pity was that i wasnt allowed to sit inside this car for pic-taking...
Cocktails served were Johnnie Walker Sour n Red Flag...but
there was a speciality Johnnie Walker Gold Reserve cocktail with guava in
the Gold Reserve lounge which opened at abt 11.30pm...
Posing with the gold reserve bottle at the Gold Reserve lounge
Bumped into VJ n here r some of the pics taken by him...when i remarked that the pics look well-taken...his response was that he only takes good pics when drunk...lol...
I happened to b standing next to this Mercedes car n some guests thought leechie was a staff from Mercedes...lol...
Pics taken at the Johnnie Walker Photobooth...
With Justin
Bumped into Steve who won the competition to meet the djs n was at the party with his pretty gf...he showed me pics of the hot female dj...lol...how time really flies, the last time i saw him was at the Johnnie Walker F1 party last year...he asked abt Brian, who was supposed to b in KL...
Thanks Johnnie Walker for this glamorous party with all the beautiful cars =)
The one who has the foresight to see emerging trends well
ahead of others tends to b comfortably well ahead of others as well
o.O
“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.” ~ Albert Einstein
My life is a joke. I couldn't stop giggling while doing the
torturing yoga, ESP when the yoga teacher try to correct my pose. N the entire
class laughed along -.- free entertainment for them. So kind of me
From NMK wall:
Tears rolled down my leechie face when i saw this posting on Ms. Neo Mui Kian's wall...
"This has been around before but still brings a tear to my eyes :
WE DON'T HAVE TOO MANY FRIENDS...........JUST GOOD FRIENDS
Let's see if you send this back... A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell. He painted a sign advertising the 4 pups and set about nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he felt a tug on his overalls. He looked down into the eyes of a little boy. "Mister," he said, "I want to buy one of your puppies." "Well," said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the back of his neck, "These puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money."
The boy dropped his head for a moment. Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer. "I've got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?"
"Sure," said the farmer. And with that he let out a whistle. "Here, Dolly!" he called. Out from the doghouse and down the ramp ran Dolly followed by four little balls of fur.
The little boy pressed his face against the chain link fence. His eyes danced with delight. As the dogs made their way to the fence, the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse.
Slowly another little ball appeared, this one noticeably smaller. Down the ramp it slid.. Then in a somewhat awkward manner, the little pup began hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up...
"I want that one," the little boy said, pointing to the runt. The farmer knelt down at the boy's side and said,
"Son, you don't want that puppy. He will never be able to run and play with you like these other dogs would."
With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers. In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of his leg attaching itself to a specially made shoe.
Looking back up at the farmer, he said, "You see sir, I don't run too well myself, and he will need someone who understands."
With tears in his eyes, the farmer reached down and picked up the little pup.
Holding it carefully he handed it to the little boy.
"How much?" asked the little boy... "No charge," answered the farmer, "There's no charge for love."
The world is full of people who need someone who understands.
It's National Friendship Week.
Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND. as well as those who WERE!!! If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends."
Collected my jet black passes yest on my way to the gym. Comes with a cute small bottle of johnnie walker n a lovely black color carrier...
i actually followed nmk n her frenz to Carlton for yummy tim sum lunch after her seminar...
This was the first time that i've been to a FJ Benjamin sale here...learnt that the last one was some 2 years back? o.O me n my mum first went on the 3rd day of the sale, which was also the Good Friday hol...we went there, hoping to catch some good la Senza bargains...but la Senza wasnt featured in this sale this time round...but there were plenty of other good buys! we went back again on the last day of the sale when there were further markdowns, esp the clothes n shoes which ran out of sizes...
Ppl there were grabbing Raoul bags as if they were free! Everytime the staff brought in boxes of bags to replenish...ppl were rushing n snatching n fighting for these bags!!! Madness manz!!! These r the Raoul bags that we managed to haul back on the last day of the sale...8 bags in total...all genunine leather bags...v.good deals...no wonder ppl were so crazily grabbing the bags...lol...btw, fb frenz commented that the white one is v.pretty
Here's another pic of
other Raoul stuff that I bot from the FJ Benjamin sale...bought some Raoul shirts for my leechie dad too...met a guy who was willing to share the bundled deal with me n explained to me the difference between straight, tapered n slim cuts for the gents shirt...he even modelled the shirts for me...lol...
Pretty Raoul shoes...i love the pink shoe box too...lol...
Pretty Guess shoes for leechie
I insisted on buying this pretty pair of Guess heels although my leechie mum says i cant walk in them =.=
Pretty Guess denim shoes when worn on my feet
Bought this pair of Guess boots although the chances of me wearing them in singapore r extremely skinny =.=
Purple Guess shoes for my leechie mum
Guess Watches: Purple for my leechie mum n black for leechie
Spent the day at Johor Premium Outlets...which seemed to b relatively quiet when we arrived...the familiar snaking queues at the various boutiques when JPO first opened was nowhere to b found! o.O anyway, i finally managed to get into Burberrys...bot a lovely wallet =)
Polo Ralph Lauren is now open...n we happened to b there on the first day of the further markdowns...scored a few good buys ;p Adidas is also having sale now...but lesser variety as compared to when it first opened...n there is totally no q at Levis now...i had to q for more than 1 hour juz to make payment on my first trip there >.<" n they ran outta bra sizes at la Senza...so we only bot panties this time round...
I gotta comment on the service of some of the boutique staff...as what everyone knows, customer service is virtually non-existent in sg...the staff at Polo Ralph Lauren were v.helpful in assisting me to search for what i wanted...well, juz in case u were wondering...i bot the polo tees from the kids department ;p one of the Adidas staff was equally helpful to assist my leechie mum find her right shoe size =) Ferragamo staff asked for my contact details so that they could update me on new shipments...pretty refreshing from some snobbish boutique staff in sg! o.O
Bought this pair of bright purple Adidas shoes for my leechie mum...her fav color is purple! lol...
Bought these 2 items at the recent Reebonz sale:
My new Prada bag. Does it look nice or aunty? O.o fb frenz commented that it looks nice...but my cynical leechie mum laughed at the floral prints =.=" i guess a louder personality is required to carry this loud bag...lol ;p
My Miss Marc bag which came with an obvious stain on the strap...the staff didnt look too pleased when i asked for the price to b marked down...one staff even commented that the original price tag wasnt too high to begin with...well, i was given the impression that they prefer to sell only exp bags o.O
btw, i learn a phrase from one of the fb guys which goes somthg like this..."if u buy stuff with money that u dont have...sooner or later, u'll have to sell stuff that u have!" oh perhaps i shld scrimp on food to save $$$ to buy a branded bag so that i will get to lose fat? lol ;p
Trying out Gellish for the v.first time...i dunno how to describe Gellish in chinese to Gina...who expressed great surprise when i told her my chinese is v.lousy >.<" anyway, i forgot to put on blusher before going out n she promptly asked how come i didnt put on makeup! =.=
Penang fried kway tiao from Malaysian Food Street at RWS. Look at how small the serving is o.O
Happiness...i'm still looking for happiness...is happiness so elusive? o.O
More $Money$...i would need more $money$ first before i can help more ppl...if u get my drift...being poor aint gonna help anyone...
My True Soul Mate...is the notion of a soulmate nothing but an urban fallacy? o.O pls prove me wrong...or am i such a hopeless romantic? =.=
I'm a simple person...I only want Someone Who Truly Loves Me For The Person That I Am
Whatever My Heart Desires...
How i wish more could be done towards helping the needy in our damn practical n apathetic society! n where is thy EMPATHY?!
Someone who can deal with my emotions! i know i can be emo...but i'm working on it...pls help me to be a better me! thx!
Someone Who Is Sweet Like Kim Hyun Joong In "Boys Over Flowers" & Charming Like Joey Yap n Suave like Jang Dong Gun in "A Gentleman's Dignity" ;p or am i asking for too much? o.O
To see sunset with someone special...sunrise is abit too early for me...lol
Highly Ambitious and Successful Guys Are V.Sexy ;p
Someone Sincere Who Dotes On Leechie
Sincerity from others...no more con-man or scams pls! n i'm allergic to HYPOCREEPS! =.=
The more i edit this list, i find more material stuff disappearing...but i still like nice watches n all the bling bling...i juz like classy stuff
Great Hairstylist Who Can Handle Leechie Natural Curls (I'm really v.tired of crappy stylists...i'm still looking for a good one)
Someone who will massage my legs when i get leg cramps in the middle of the nite!
Follow Leechie on Instagram
Search This Blog
Leechie Idols
Coco Chanel
Liew Mun Leong
Joe DiNapoli
T. Harv Eker
Peter Lim
Jay Abraham
Keith Cunningham
Olivia Lum
Elim Chew
Adam Khoo
Testimonials From Event Participants
"I must say the ppl in your event are of better quality than other singles events" - R. K., Business Owner
"Please keep up your excellence in maintaining members' interest and support in your dynamic range of singles' social dating activities." - K. C., Associate Manager
"Thanks for arranging such a great evening yesterday, beautiful night with lots of great new friends :) " - L. S., Technical Director
"Leechie, we would continue our firm support by getting fresher faces to your singles dating scene. You have displayed initiative, intuition, persistence, care, concern, creativity and passion in facilitating and enhancing instant rapport, personality development and healthy communication among local and foreign qualified singles in your centre of influence." K. C., Associate Manager
"Awesome Party!! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year 2012! ❤‿❤" - W. A., Remisier
"Hooray, we are glad to have you indeed as an efficient, effective, meticulous, detailed, expressive and communicative singles social event organiser who got along well with most of us new kids on the block." - K.C., Senior Associate Director
"Thanks for arranging for networking event. I have enjoyed myself last evening. You are definitely a good organizer for such events." - B.K., Agency Manager
“Thanks for the awesome event.” – G., Banking Executive
"Thanks for organising this wonderful networking event for the singles. I really enjoyed..." - F.S., Account Executive
"Leechie, thanks for the great networking event that day." - K.C., Consultant
"Thanks for organizing the great event!" - H. H., Marketing Executive
"You have done a good job and I know it's tough to organize such a big group. Keep it up" - L.L., Pilates Teacher
"Thanks for last night's fun outing..." - R.C., Senior Associate Manager
"Wa really nice place. Hmm...u are really good at finding this kind of nice cozy environment... =P" - S.P., Makeup Artist
Thanks Tono Leechie for the book you gave me years back. It really taught me a lot. Provided me with so much insights and exposed me to things I never knew of. It really is an awesome awesome book! :D
Hi there , u are a legend :)
U r a spontaneous n interesting person. I wouldn't think u r single. Guess the guys r intimidated by ur brains n looks.
Share with you an interesting BLOGGER…Stuff to read on this Hottie Girl with lots of explosive pack. A piece of conversation with GUTS & Courage and dosage of widom to gather and SUM ## @ up her thoughts & feelings to issues which matters to her. Let’s applaud her for asserting her provocative stand !!##@@@
wow leechie, i take my hats off you.. you got good english and good collections of quotable quotes :) :) will mark your blog as my fav :P
Well leechie, I'm ur greatest fan that like u alot. To say anything less is unacceptable b'cos u r so perfect now, all fb like u the way u r & nothing less. Like it or not. U r like a celebrity to us so u belong to the fans...............just like in hollywood or boliwood. Hey, when r we going to hv chiniwood? p...
U indeed exhibit unequal wisdom,hpoe u are working in a radio/Tv firm?
U never run out of "words of wisdom". I like it.
Must catch up with u sometime. U sound a very interesting person ..... deep ...... maybe radical?
Nice pic. Very sweet and attractive.. I didn't know u did modelling too.
Leechie..you are the best...do not bcs of another person's remark n screw yourself up....
Love your blog ~~ !! so real so sweet so leechie ♥
Ppl like you for what you are- a leechie
Leechie is posh and leechilic! She is Unique
You have blossomed into a beautiful girl beyond comparison
Hi Leechie, I like your star quote and like how you write your basic information. Pls keep in touch.
I like yr philosophy n yr comments n would like to befriend you if that's ok with you. Pls read more about me on my Profile page. I look forward to speaking with you soon! :-)
Hello Leechie! Interesting blog post! We're glad that you enjoyed yourself at the party! Be sure to stay tuned to the page to win future hot ticket invites! ;)
nice quote n cute comment from u. lol
I read some of your blog during the weekend. It's cool ya =)
Wow! Didnt know that u r such a hip person! ;) Muz be the loud music n poor lightings yesterday haha. Cool! I like yr blog :) Yup, keep in touch gal!
Ohayo! I chanced upon your profile on Facebook and see we have a common interest in personal development. Plus, I like your favorite quote..."If you are a STAR, you'll shine everywhere and anywhere!" Needless to say that is why I am reaching out to connect with you. Lets get connected here and lets get to know each other a little better. Btw, cool job with your blog...I'm sure gonna miss the KTM...especially having supper there!
Haha, flattered to be called 美女 by another 美女 ;) Stay pretty forever!
Leechie, Thanks for adding. I like your writing on your updates...you're funny! I must say I literally laugh when I read it each time. Keep them coming.
Hi Tono, I love reading your messages and your blog. You are funny and have a great personality - No one should be lonely- Especially at this time of year. It's really up to all of us not to let that happen to anyone.
But we all adore you anyway, Princess Leechie!
I love your blogs...
I like your blog because it is inline with what I wrote in my blog
Thanks! great blog by the way.
Nice blogsite and I like the name. One day, I would like to attend your networking event.
Dun worry babe, no matter how u change ur hair style still look great and pretty.cause u can't change ur pretty face. :p
WOW girl!!! really envy you...I'm a great fan of Kevin Lao Shi...all the makeup in your blog except the powder, I had them too, but I've to go Taiwan myself...to buy... they r really gd & useful... =( And when Kevin Lao shi was here, my grandma was hospitalised, couldn't make it there 2 c him too =_= Do share ur review of the powder when u start using kkk? Thks!
ya, i was really too tired and restless to do anything.. thank god for your post that i actually laugh out loud... very entertaining and funny . . ..
my friend dun be dampered by such comments or requests. U r a Princess with better stands views tastes wishes mindset.
I just love your wall post and profile....
hi ! nice to be ur fans ^^
Tono, quite a bio you have " I believe in creating my own destiny in life and making the most out of what i have! When I grow up, I wanna be a LEECH! " .. i must say again your profile pic is really delightful , the color tone used in the photo is soothing..
just follow ur blog...add oil!
Thanks leechie! write more blog posts!!
I like u bcos u know how to choose this type of funny video. Pls share more............wow
Leechie Fav Fragrances
Chanel Allure ~ My first fragrance that leechie wore to uni
J'adore Dior ~ J'adore leechie...nobody loves me so i gotta love her more! :'(
Boss Intense ~ Feel like a boss whenever i wear this fragrance! ;p
Euphoria By Calvin Klein ~ So sweet & captivating ;p
Vera Wang Night Princess ~ the sweeter version
Lanvin Couture ~ Sweet
Anna Sui Secret Wish ~ Leechie has both the pink & green versions but prefers the sweeter pink version
Leechie Bucket List
My Very Own Leechie Legacy
My Very Own Leechie Autobiography "Confessions of a Leechie" ;p