10 Signs The Guy Isn't Right For You

Joshua says "or wise enough to let go :)"



Jason sums it up best:
"If you can hold it up and put it down, it's called weight-lifting; if you can hold it up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of the people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love."

Was reading this interesting article from tt i wanna share with u...
(http://lifestyle.xin.msn.com/en/sex-relationships/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5360442)

Recently, i have strangers asking me why am i unattached esp since i'm pretty...well, things r not as simple as it seems...Joey says maybe ppl find me unapproachable...Brian asks if i'm playing hard to get...n i juz realized tt most guys can rem how i look but they dont rem what i do! =.= n according to some superficial palm analysis, i'm supposed to have alot of admirers but probs with relationships...but what's the point of having the attention of so many guys when i cant have the affection of the one tt my heart longs for? :'( i'm honestly quite tired of all the sweet nothings tt i hear -.- but from the bottom of my leechie heart...the earlier u realize that the guy is not right for u...the better it is for u =)

I had to get the following translated...btw, my uncle once looked at my palms n said tt i have many lines coming out from the heart line juz like his (as per pic1)...i had no idea tt meant the numerous admirers...but my palms look confusing...there r a series of islands on the heart line too...n some fengshui master was trying to tell me tt this is bad for relationships! =.="




Haiz... :'(



Btw, i also read another article on "time wasters" n "players" n that was when i realized tt someone who keeps claiming tt he wanna be married with kids in 5 yrs' time will still be looking for his perfect ideal princess who doesnt exist in reality even 10 years down the road!

U may think tt most party guys r playboys who hop from one gal to the next...but even worse r those guys who claim tt they dont party but go chasing after every single skirt in sight n who keep asking u to intro gals to them! =.=

"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you!"

















"男人对女人的伤害，不一定是他爱上了别人，而是他在她有所期待的​时候让她失望，在她脆弱的时候没有扶她一把。" ~ Emily

Posted by Kylie...R such guys extinct? -.- or as what Abby suggested:"Not extinct. Either he used to be a female or he is gay. :)"???

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"10 signs the guy isn't right for you
Don't know if he's the one for you? Here are some tips to help you figure things out.

The saying 'love is blind' is often used to describe anything associated with love. Let's be honest, love does make you blind, but only towards what is happening in the relationship. And when this happens, you will start to make excuses for any bad behavior because you think you are in love with him, and as long as he is happy, you are too. Happiness as defined generally is a state of mind or feeling characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure or joy. And when you lack any one of these feelings, you, my friend, may not be as happy as you think you are.

So here are 10 signs he's just not right for you.

He gets annoyed whenever you are emotional
This is a situation where he would either get really annoyed or pay no attention to you when you're being emotional, at a vulnerable state or just being plain sensitive towards him. It's even worse when you're actually telling him that he's hurting you in some way and he looks at you as if you are the world's most annoying thing he has ever seen or as if you're speaking in a language he can't understand.

He makes you feel as if everything is your fault and puts you down constantly
He blames you for anything and everything that goes wrong. He blames you if his clothes are not ironed, when the car ran out of fuel, because he's unemployed and the list goes on. Technically, he's blaming you for everything that went wrong even if it's something that is totally out of your circle of control. If that's not bad enough, he puts you down for just being who you are, when in fact he is supposed to love you for who you really are. He thinks that by putting you down he could change you from who you are to what he wants you to be, and if that is the case, then he really doesn't deserve you and is definitely not the one.

He hits you
Whether it's a slap on the face or a shove towards the wall, it is still physical abuse. Physical abuse does not have to leave visible bruises, as long as he hurts you physically in any way, it amounts to physical abuse.

He cheats on you
Remember the phrase 'once a cheater, always a cheater'? Well there's no true or false to that saying because everyone deserves a second chance but shouldn't that make you question his commitment to the relationship?

It's just sex
When all there is to the relationship is sexual intercourse, and the only intimacy that exists between you is in the bedroom. Sexual connection is not wrong, but if that is the only common ground he shares with you then what is there to the relationship?

He controls you
It's no harm if he knows where you are, what are you doing or who you're with, but if he restricts you just cause he wants to without a reason, then he is controlling you. A relationship should be based on trust, thus if he's controlling you, the relationship wouldn't work because he's stopping you from living your life.

Your friends don't like him and vice versa
Your friends would be people who know you well, which means that they might pick up signs which you may miss. Everyone has their own view of things, but not all of them will suit you, but the least you should do is think about it. While doing this it is very important to be honest with yourself.

He's a cry baby
Venting once in a while after a bad day is fine, but if he whines and complains about anything and everything all the time and is always being negative about things around him then it's bad for you. When you are constantly with a negative person, you would become as negative as he is and it will affect you personally.

He's selfish and inconsiderate
He doesn't care about your needs, and it's only about him all the time. For example, after a long day of work you see him and all he does is talk about his day without even considering to ask you how was yours, if you've eaten or what do you want to do. Communication in a relationship is often underrated when it is actually the most important thing.

There's no give and take
A relationship involves two people, it needs input of both the people involved - just as how you need two hands to clap. It's a give and take situation, if your guy is having problems then you should be his pillar of support and vice versa. But if only one person has to be the pillar of support throughout the relationship then that person will eventually be drained and exhausted and that pillar would just tumble down.

So those are the 10 signs that he's not right for you. There is no one out there who can really tell you whether or not someone is right for you; you're the one who really knows what's going on in your relationship. As long as you are happy then he may be the one for you, just remember: you would want someone who you can grow with and not someone who brings you down, someone who loves you for who you really are and not someone you'd have to rearrange your life for to suit his."

Soooooooo sadz :'(


"【天蝎座女生秘密】⒈吃软不吃硬。要知道天蝎座脾气很硬；⒉很自我；⒊重感情；⒋爱恨分明；⒌前一秒哭泣，下一秒仍然会微笑；⒍自尊心都很强，是因为她们忍受不了别人对她的忽视；⒎不会随便爱上一个男人，她不喜欢的人，哪怕那人为她去死，她也只会觉的那人很傻。"

"我是那種遇到感情就付出100分，所以開心是100分，但傷心也是100分的人。"

O.o...the sad thing is....there r many guys who r holding onto their gfs until someone better comes along =.="



Trust is a fragile thing...


To quote Matthew: "Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together."