Savor the Coffee...

Saw this meaningful post tt i wanna share with all of u...btw, this article is abt coffee but leechie doesnt really drink coffee o.O"

"When you're important to another person, that person will always find a way to make time for u. No excuses, no lies, no broken promises."

"2. He won’t plan ahead.
You invite him to a hot party next month, and he hesitates before giving you his answer. Maybe he’s waiting to see if something better comes up—a sign he’s not ecstatic about going. If his final answer is “yes”, then rejoice: all may not be lost. But if it’s “no”, and it’s his second refusal, cut back on the invitations and rethink the relationship.

4. He’s vague about getting together again.
At the end of your date, he suggests keeping in touch—and nothing more specific. It may not be the end of the world, but if he really wants to see you again, he’ll make the time. Maybe you’ve just started dating and he fears putting too much pressure on you; or it could be he’s not so sure he wants to see you again next week. You’ll have the answer soon enough if he doesn’t call in the days to come, or if he turns you down the next time you call to ask him out."

I also dont like ppl who leave me hanging in the air! y cant som ppl be straightforward like me? -.- n i dont like to be PLAN B...i'll never ever accept being PLAN B! to me, i muz be PLAN A or nothing!

Kylie wanna peel the stamps off my eyes n summed it up best:
"Stop all this n wake up to ur cheerful life again .. He's juz a useless toilet paper n dump in the bowl n flush it away。man doesn't respect u , it's not worth it. I'm sure there's better shark fin out there for u.. Dump ur ikan bilies ba^^"

It's quite obvious tt some guys r players...considering their age...guess they would have had many opportunities to settle down since donkey years ago...instead of dating n playing around with sooooooooo many ladies...thinking tt they r god's gift to women -.-
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"Savor the Coffee...

A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit the conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in their work and lives. Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups- porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite, telling them to help themselves to the coffee.

When all the alumni had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said: "Notice that all of the nice looking, expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it's normal for you to want only the best for yourselves; that is the source of your problems and stress. Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink.
What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups…and then you began eyeing each other's cups.

Now consider this:
• Life is the coffee; your job, money, and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life.
• The type of cup one has does not define, nor change the quality of Life a person lives. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee God has provided us."

God makes the coffee, man chooses the cups.
The happiest people don't have the best of everything.
They just make the best of everything.
Live simply.
Love generously.
Care deeply.
Speak kindly.

Enjoy your coffee!
~ Author Unknown "



I'm trying to clear my emails...getting cluttered n mailbox is full...here's what i saw in an old email tt a fren sent donkey moons ago...enjoy...lol ;p

"DORMITORY:
When you rearrange the letters:
DIRTY ROOM

ASTRONOMER:
When you rearrange the letters:
MOON STARER

DESPERATION:
When you rearrange the letters:
A ROPE ENDS IT

THE EYES:
When you rearrange the letters:
THEY SEE

GEORGE BUSH:
When you rearrange the letters :
HE BUGS GORE

THE MORSE CODE :
When you rearrange the letters:
HERE COME DOTS

SLOT MACHINES:
When you rearrange the letters:
CASH LOST IN ME

ANIMOSITY:
When you rearrange the letters:
IS NO AMITY

ELECTION RESULTS:
When you rearrange the letters:
LIES - LET'S RECOUNT

SNOOZE ALARMS:
When you rearrange the letters:
ALAS! NO MORE Z 'S

A DECIMAL POINT:
When you rearrange the letters:
IM A DOT IN PLACE

THE EARTHQUAKES:
When you rearrange the letters:
THAT QUEER SHAKE

ELEVEN PLUS TWO:
When you rearrange the letters:
TWELVE PLUS ONE

AND FOR THE GRAND FINALE:

MOTHER-IN-LAW:
When you rearrange the letters:
WOMAN HITLER "

Got this joke via a FB fren: - A dying granny was talking to her granddaughter. "I may die any minute so
I want you to inherit my farm including the villa, tractor, the farmhouse
and all the livestock and $22,389,630.00 cash".
"WoW!!" said the granddaughter 'Thanks granny, I didn't know you even had a farm & all this wealth! Where is it??
Grandma : "Facebook"


Interesting Quotes:

"When you're important to another person, that person will always find a way to make time for u. No excuses, no lies, no broken promises."

"People will always talk about you; both good and bad. Put on a show, give them something to talk about. Because sometimes that's all they have in their life. "

"Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'"

“Let fear be a counselor and not a jailer” ~ Anthony Robbins

"In business, the competition will bite you if you keep running; if you stand still, they will swallow you.If you stand straight, do not fear a crooked shadow."

"The single most motivating thing at work is making progress. It does not matter if is a small progress. When we make progress, we feel good and more motivated. If we feel more motivated, we are more likely to make progress the next day."

"If you want to understand how a lion hunts don't go to the zoo. Go to the jungle." ~ Jim Stengel CMO of P&G

"A friend is never a coincidence in your life, they are strangers meant to come into your life to bring you priceless lessons and funny memories:)"

"The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

"You can't be fun if you are not having fun." ~ Mama Gena

"Life is short...LIVE IT, Love is rare...GRAB IT, Anger is bad...DUMP IT, Fear is awful... FACE IT, Memories are sweet...CHERISH IT...I am cute...ACCEPT IT"

"One of the big frustrations we have in life is when we waste so much time on low probability prospects who turn us off, turn us down, reject us, and we start to think we’re no good, or the product is no good, or life sucks, when that’s not the case, yes? We’re just talking to the wrong people. And much of the time, we’re talking to the wrong people because we haven’t really focused in on what we have to offer." ~ Harv

"Unsuccessful people try to do all kinds of things, but that’s like trying to ride three bicycles at once. Successful people pick a single focus, and they concentrate on that." ~ Harv

"Take good care of your body. It's the only place you have to live." ~ Jim Rohn

"Don't worry about the whole world: if you do it will overwhelm you. Worry about one wave at a time. Please yourself. Do something for you, and the rest will fall in line." ~ David Seabury

"Single means you're only taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with."

"Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future."

"You can't go through life quitting everything. If you're going to achieve anything, you've got to stick with something"

"Everybody out there is your friends except that you have not met most of them."

"Life is like a coin. You can spend it any way you wish, but you only spend it once." ~ Lillian Dickson

"Love is like earthquake.unpredictable,a little scary,but when the hard part is over u realize how lucky u truly are. A rainbow after the storm."

"Everyone wants to be your sun, but not me. I want to be your moon so I can light up your darkest moments and nights when your sun isn't around."

"The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others."

"People who tell you to follow your heart, usually don't do that for themselves."

"Truth and lies are like water and oil - they just do not mix."

"Remember there are three poisons: greed, anger and ignorance."

"Street Smart "Astuteness " is also learn thru years of experience Discern on what is right or wrong , good or bad" ~ Elim Chew

"Goals are the fuel in the furnace of achievement. Think on paper and write them down!" ~ Brian Tracy

"What’s the difference between caring and sharing?
Caring means seeing the needs of the other person so you can truly help.
Sharing is secondary; it’s the manifestation of the insight that comes from caring.
Time to tell whether or not you care before you share. When you’re wrapped up in yourself, it’s difficult to see the needs of others, and your sharing may have the opposite effect of what you intended."

"A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself." ~ Josh Billings

"raindrops falling from heaven
could never wash away my misery.."

"Love me without fear; Trust me without questioning;
Need me without demanding; Want me without restrictions;
Accept me without change; Desire me without inhibitions." ~ Dick Sutphen

"I'm diagnosed as being in love. The medicine is you. The addiction is awesome. The withdrawal is hell."

"Giving someone all ur love is not an assurance tt he will love u back. Dont expect love in return, wait for it to grow in the heart, if it doesnt, be contented tt it grows in U."

"機會難得!!百年只有一次!!放棄了，還要再等一百年才有喔"

"两個人吵架，先說對不起的人 並不是認输了，並不是原諒了。他只是比對方 更珍惜這份感情。"

"知恩圖報, 施恩莫望報。
Essence of Giving and Receiving; Give and FORGET. Receive and NEVER FORGET." ~ Jeff

"‎~如果你懂得珍惜，你會發現你獲得的越來越多，如果你一昧追求​，你會發現你失去的越來越快。"

"人生没有永远的伤痛..再深的痛..伤口总会痊愈.."

"一个人一生中最大的幸福在于做对两件事：一是找对单位、找对上司​；二是找对妻子或丈夫。"

"~愛情多數是盲目的，但婚姻能恢復了它的視力。"

"~每一段感情就像風一樣...輕輕的吹過來...吹了一陣..​.又輕輕的走了...沒有人可以強留下風...也沒有人可以強求​感情..."

人生..没有过不去的坎..
你不可坐在坎边等它消失..
你只能想办法穿过它..
...
人生没有永远的爱情..
总要结束..不能拥有的爱情.
适当的放弃..这也许人生的转泪点"

"不敢太爱你 怕忘了自己 不敢太爱你 怕迷失了自己 不敢太爱你 怕找不回自己"

"‎` 爱一个不爱自己的人~"

"~I believe if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't, nothing can make him stay. 我相信如果一個男人要定妳，沒人能防碍他靠近你；但如果他不要你​，也沒人能强迫他留下或阻止他離去。"

"~A man who truly loves you will be angry at you for many things, but will stick around. 如果一個男人眞的愛你，他會應為很多事情對 你不滿意，對你發脾氣，但卻始終堅持守在你身邊。"