How To Spot A PLAYER!!!

This is the must-read blog entry for all ladies! I still hav probs trying to identify players! >.<" but i guess deep down, these players r juz pathetic souls trying to seek the company of more ladies to pacify their A380 egos! =.=" n some of these players r downright nerdy n ugly-looking n yet they think tt they r God's gift to women! what a joke! lol ;p what i strongly believe is "A real man doesn't love a million girls, He loves one girl in a million ways..." n many of these players only dare to approach n date those average-looking ladies...the more the merrier...cos the probability of rejection from these average-looking ladies is much lower! cos
"Beautiful women typically get more stares, winks, and harassment than average-looking women do, but they are also less likely to get asked out by average-looking men because those men tend to be intimated by them."

I always tell my guy frenz to go pick an easier target if they hav probs with attractive ladies ;p

"I want an honest relationship in 2011! No Secrets. No Lies. And No Cheating.
I just want someone who will understand me"

N there r som guys who think tt they could make use of a leechie as a party entry tix to get to the coolest parties in town so tt they could hook up with some pretty ladies...but sorry...pls go try ur more dumbo gals pls...leechie aint tt dumbo to not know what they r thinking abt! >.<"

Haiz...i dont really wanna go into this...but for the benefit of all the ladies reading this blog...the guy tt i was dating last yr told me tt Jack Neo did nothing wrong in committing his affair! well, tt should have sounded a BIG alarm bell in my silly leechie mind then! but silly leechie gave him benefit of the doubt! n he kept telling me tt he was too busy running his biz tt he didnt have time to date...n tt i was the only gal tt he was interested in...n tons of other crapz on hindsight! well, it was really ironic...cos i later found out tt he alrdy had a steady gf when he met me! well, it was lie after lie...a web of lies! anyway, he muz have told the same lies to tons of dumbo airheads prior to meeting me...so he thought he could continue telling me the same lies n pull it off! well, i know i look n speak like an airhead...but there is still somthg between my leechie ears! leechie aint tt dumbo! so pls think carefully before lying to me! >.<" anyway, tt was the past...history...we were juz briefly dating...good tt i figured things out early on before even entering into any relationship...so nothing came outta it...n i found out tt he remarried later last yr to this mature-looking lady! o.O

Btw, juz to share a quote from a fren:
"I told 3 people this in e past 2 days: Love & Attachment r 2 very different things. its only when u understand that, n learn to love someone without attachment, before u can find true happiness in a relationship."
which prompted this response from his fren...lol ;p
"so you are telling people to love someone but not to be attached to them so that when they ditch you for someone else you can not be devastated?"

"The reason why parents do not allow their sons to play dolls is because they want to teach them that girls aren’t toys to play with"

"『男人』你没本事就别说「女人」太《现实》；『女人』你没实力就别说「男人」太《花心》。"

Lyrics from a Sandy Lam song...
"愛過就不要說抱歉　畢竟我們走過這一回　從來我就不曾後悔　初見那時美麗的相約　曾經以為我會是你　浪漫的愛情故事　唯一不變的永遠　是我自己願意承受　這樣的輸贏結果　依然無怨無悔........."

"沉默，是一个女人最大的哭声。女人有心事后，不想多说，感觉说话很累，或许是习惯了沉默，习惯了痛，习惯了安静。当一个女人不理你的时候，其实她已经受伤很深！"

"Look out for those womanizing ways
How to spot a player
By Flora McCraith, MSN, 27/05/2011
(http://lifestyle.xin.msn.com/en/sex-relationships/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4885785)

There are some guys that just love the thrill of the chase and once they have caught their prey, they discard them and move onto the next. For these Casanovas it is all a game, but for the women involved it is more time wasted, a pillow soaked in tears and a feeling of hurt. However, there are ways to spot these womanizers by noticing certain traits. If you want to fine tune your womanizer radar and avoid being played by a guy you’re dating, here are some tips on how to spot them.

It’s mainly about egos: chatting up women and leading them on, with one goal in mind is a way for them to feel good. It’s like a power trip and affirms to them they are attractive and appealing to the opposite sex.

If a guy that announces that they are a "bit of a ladies man" while chatting you up then you've definitely found a womanizer. Someone who is genuinely interested in someone really wouldn't mention this.

If you find out they haven’t had a relationship longer than a month or two, yet seems to attract the attention of plenty of women, then be cautious. It could indicate that he has issues with commitment and won’t hang around particularly long.

If he comes across a little indifferent and yet you find yourself wanting his attention more and more, it could be his way to ensure your undivided attention so you’ll be putty in his hands. He’ll say jump and you’ll ask how high.

If you hear through others that he has a womanizing past, then take note. Unless it is someone trying to interfere, a rumor doesn’t arise without a reason.

People don't fall in love straight away and those feelings are often confused with lust. If he drops the love bomb, then it could be just his attempt to achieve his main aim: sex. He is trying to appeal to your emotional side by allowing him to be closer to you.

If all else fails, then use your gut instinct when assessing his character. Look out for that overt charm, flirting tools they have to seduce. They will go out of their way to make you feel special and shower you in compliments, but it is merely so they can have their wicked way!"