5 Signs He's Not Really Into You!!! >.<"

Saw the following article (http://sg.shoppinglifestyle.com/love/signs-not-into-you/1710/1/)

Some food for thought :'( haiz...it aint easy to fall in love... >.<" y is someone giving me the cold shoulder? :'( Audrey's advice: “u deserve someone better! looks will fade too, unless he is so bad-looking that u r worried abt the genes...lol” btw, there have been sooooooo many cases of infidelity amongst super high profile celebities these days...so it's not surprising tt many "tai-tais" r soooooooooo worried tt their hubbies might be snared away by some sweet young thing...lol ;p

"You know how much you are worth in the eyes of someone by how much attention that was given to you. If the person's excuse is that he is always busy but has time for others and not you.. what does it show?"
"I wonder if you think of me when you're busy? Cause I'm always busy thinking of you."
Maybe he's juz not that into u, babe...save yourself from further heartache >.<"

"如果你愛一个人，你會了解她的一切，而不需要問她；如果你不愛一个人，即使她告訴你她的一切，你也還是會忘记的。" haiz >.<"

Monologue -> When you ask a person 101 questions n you get 0 reply -.-" it's better to talk to a wall ya...at the v.least, u can hear your own echo =.="

Some guys juz love to love many women...perhaps these many women can help to mask any insecurity issues tt they may hav? =.=" "All I want is to find a nice person to hang out with until I drop dead. Not a lot to ask." i'm not asking a lot ya...i'm juz a simple gal who wanna b loved by a simple guy...tt's all...simple right? but y is it tt such a simple thing can b so hard eh? haiz >.<"

Btw, i'm pretty good with doggies...my frenz' doggies love leechie...took plenty pics of Patches yest...will post them up soon...now i'm starting to consider getting a cutie pet doggie for myself...was telling my fren tt...at the v.least, ur pet doggie will be cuter n wont flirt with other gals n will be 100% loyal to u only...but the sad thing is i cant afford the time luxury of looking after such a pet...maybe he'll run off with some bitch due to my negligence? lol...pardon my pun ;p she was like...her doggie is loyal only to food! lol ;p

"現在我對你很好、很好、很好，你不需要、你無所謂、你不在乎，你不珍惜，
當某天，你被傷害，想起我，你就會明白了。"

"Avoiding is the worst treatment to the person who cares for u."

"The findings back up the evolution theory that says men look for attractive women while women look for successful men."

"But what's the use of having a spouse who's a high flyer at work but doesn't communicate with you and instead, cares only about himself or his work?"

"『男人』你没本事就别说「女人」太《现实》；『女人』你没实力就别说「男人」太《花心》。"

"人生就像愤怒的小鸟，当你失败的时候，总有几只猪在笑" ~ (ANGRY BIRD)

"沉默，是一个女人最大的哭声。女人有心事后，不想多说，感觉说话很累，或许是习惯了沉默，习惯了痛，习惯了安静。当一个女人不理你的时候，其实她已经受伤很深！"
Sometimes silence is the only response when u r being taken for granted n treated like plague...when u r hurt beyond hurt! :'(

"5 Signs He's Not Really Into You

How to tell if he's wasting your time.


There's a guy you totally fancy and whom you've been seeing for sometime. Yet there's something about him you can't put your finger on: He's kinda too busy with work, a tad too passive about your relationship, and not acting as besotted as he should be.

Or maybe he really isn't. It's a bitter pill to swallow, but better to know if he's wasting your time sooner rather than later. Here are five red flags that could confirm your doubts.


1. He's not trying to see you
Either he's the busiest guy on the planet or his sorry-I-got-to-work-on-weekends excuse is just that -- an excuse. How do you know for sure? Does he find time for his mates yet somehow not have time to meet up with you or talk on the phone? If the answer is yes, something is amiss. When it's always you who's doing the running, it's a clear indication that he's not all that committed to the relationship. "If a guy is into you, he will find time to make a call and catch up," says Lexi Proud, who is a dating expert for Arrange Me a Date.


2. You've not met his friends
It's not a good sign if he hasn't introduced you to his friends and family, especially after you have dated for some time. Just how long is too long to wait? Proud suggests asking questions if you've not met any of his friends by the three-month mark and if you've not met his family by six months. "If a guy is into you, generally they want you to meet their friends. After all, they should be proud to have you on their arm!"


3. He only sees you for sex
This is so painfully obvious that it's going to sound blunt. If this guy is only meeting up with you for a hook-up, he's only into your body, not you as a person. Get out, pronto.


4. He often lets you down
Does he frequently cancel plans you've made together because "something else" has cropped up? Be wary, especially if there's no reason for it, and if it's happening on a persistent basis -- it's a sure sign your relationship just isn't up there on his list of priorities.


5. He leaves you in doubt
Here's the simple universal truth about men: If a guy wants you, you'll know it. He won't leave you wondering about his behavior -- he'll call you, he'll ask you out, he'll want to be with you whenever he can. If all you get are lukewarm reactions from the guy, he's just not that into you. Period."

Update:

A fb fren juz told me this:
"Its your blog, so if he reads and finds it offensive, it means you wrote a good blog. Like the saying goes, good actor can make viewers be pissed with him in real life. So you should be happy you are a good blogger or be happy he is affected."

"The reason why parents do not allow their sons to play dolls is because they want to teach them that girls aren’t toys to play with"

"All of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon - instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today."

"This is your life. Do what you love, and do it often. Life is about the people you meet, and the things you create with them. So go out and start creating. Life is short. Live your dream and shape your passion. Open your mind, arms and heart to new things and people. Ask the next person you see what their passion is, and share your inspiring dream with them!"

"If you listen to your fears, you will die never knowing what a great person you might have been."

“We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.” ~ Frederick Keonig

""Iron sharpens iron." Communication protects relationships. Learn to communicate corectly & don't allow a wedge to come in."

"Persistence is the iron quality of success; if you persist long enough you must eventually succeed." ~ Brian Tracy

"Sometimes the right person for you was there all along. You just didn't see it because the wrong one was blocking the sight."

"A real man doesn't love a million girls, He loves one girl in a million ways..."

"一个人要用心、诚心相待，真心交流，恒心相守。不要计较太多的得与失，感情没有绝对的公平，也没有绝对的对错，要学会用一颗宽容的心包容对方的缺点与失误......"

"為何要留下自己在未來的日子裡難過，時間是個很無形的東西，可以帶來喜悅亦可帶走悲傷，可以帶來幸福也可以將過去的記憶帶走........"

"『女人』~最『驕傲』の不是『擁有』過多少個男人，而是她の男人，願意為她『拒絕』多少個女人。『男人』~最『驕傲』の不是『睡過』多少個女人，而是『能有』一個女人，『值得』自己為她『加强』控制欲去『防备和拒絕』其他女人~~~。那個他／她.....你们找到了吗？"

【男生永远不懂】她依赖你是因为她把你当做她的唯一；她老给你打电话是因为她想要听到你的声音；她爱生气是因为她想要你来哄她，在乎她；她爱吃醋是因为她爱你，她容不下一点你给其他女生的任何一点温柔。女生之所以会有那么多的眼泪，那是因为她将所有的委屈都化做泪水，而把所有的温柔都留给你。

"不用一首歌的時間，我就愛上了你，音樂还沒停止，思念就開始了，如果愛情是個危险的遊戲，我願意輸給你，如果等待是個孤獨的陷阱，我都願意沦陷，我愛你，我想你，不過是三個字，簡單地，認真地，嚇壞了我自己，沒問你，就愛你，我可能不是最好的，但是對不起，請你准许我爱上你，看著你，感觉在你眼里我竟然如此渺小，遇見你，就再也沒有離開的權利，有了你，之前的愛只是練習，為了準備對你更好，兩個人抱在一起，究竟需要多少力氣，上帝都不明白，我那儿知道这是哪裡來的勇氣？"

【MISS】是想念也是錯過，當你決定放手轉身的那一刻，再多的愛，不捨與後悔都不能讓一切重來，唯一的解藥，只有時間，無解的是不知道會真的痊癒，還是因為背對背走遠了就看不到了.....

"主动，被动，不如互动；愛人，被愛，不如相愛；走在一起~~是緣份；一起在走~~是幸福。"

"沉默，是一个女人最大的哭声。女人有心事后，不想多说，感觉说话很累，或许是习惯了沉默，习惯了痛，习惯了安静。当一个女人不理你的时候，其实她已经受伤很深！"

"人生就像愤怒的小鸟，当你失败的时候，总有几只猪在笑" ~ (ANGRY BIRD)

So sweet from Mike:
"喜欢一个人不困难，难就难在喜欢一个不喜欢自己的人，但不要忽略你身边一直守护着你的那个人。真正爱你的人，不会说许多爱你的话，却会做许多爱你的事。对于全世界来说，你可能只是一个人，但对他来说你就是他的全世界。就算全世界背叛了你，他也会跟你一起面对~ (Loving some1 is not difficult, but loving some1 who don’t love u is~ But don’t neglect those by ur side, whom may not say alot of sweet words but do alot of sweet work for u~ To the world, u may be 1 person but to him u are the world~ Even if 1day all turn against u, He will face it tgt with u~)"

"It's an amazing feeling to realize how one person who was once just a stranger suddenly meant the world to you. 很奇妙的一种感觉是，曾经的陌生人，突然之间成为了你的整个世界。"

this is damn damn inspiring!!!
juz like what Joey says: "Preparation + Opportunity = Good Fortune:-) "


♥ at first sight!!!