I thought i was juz trying to share details of my life with him...juz sharing some facts n bits n pieces of my life with him...but i didnt realize tt he's not interested in my life n he finds it damn irritating :'( so i'm damn irritating n my leechie life is damn irritating to him???!!! :'(
I know i'm far from being perfect n muz work on my flaws...i'm not an angel but juz a leech...i'm not trying to tell him tt i'm good...but apparently he thinks i'm trying to tell him tt... :'( but he juz reminds me of my leechie mum...i can never please her...tt i'm juz not good enough...she will nvr give me the affirmation tt i'm looking for although i know she cares abt me... :'( i guess it's human nature to yearn for what we lack ya? o.O"
Men r from Mars n Women from Venus? think he finds it irritating tt i keep telling him tt i went party but didnt stay long...he thinks tt i'm trying to tell him tt i'm a gd gal...but i was in fact trying to tell him what happened which is a fact...i didnt lie to him...but bcos he didnt reply my smses...i tried to explain more...then maybe he thinks tt i keep repeating to him tt i'm a gd gal n he got irritated...n the more i try to clarify, the more irritated he became...i did ask him what he was referring to by his reply "honestly. that's probably ur personality. it's very you. u may not realize it"...but he didnt say...think he finds me irritating...n juz want me to stop talking...n stop harping on it...n he wanna sleep... :'( perhaps u dont know how hurt it feels to have someone u care abt telling u tt he finds u irritating! :'( but i guess he doesnt know tt i keep thinking abt it even when i sleep n even cried over it... :'(
"I think that he thinks that you are not important. If you're really important to him, he'll try to make time for you and not the other way around. He must have something really attractive for you to be this accomodating to him." ~ Marcus
"It's not what I feel for you; It's what I don't feel for anyone BUT you"
"Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves."
"Everytime U Scream at Ur Woman...There’s Another MAN wishing He could Whisper in her Ears. When U Humiliate, Offend and Insult Her, there’s another MAN Wanting to Remind Her How Wonderful and Beautiful SHE is. When u Hurt her, there’s Another MAN wishing He could Hug the Pain Away. And when U Make Her Cry, there’s another MAN wanting to Steal Smiles from HER. Treat Ur LADIES Right cuz There's SOMEONE out There who CAN&WILL!!!"
I understand tt he's v.busy...n seems to be stressed...each time i juz wanna talk to him...i worry abt saying somthg which might irritate him but i still ended up saying stuff which annoy the hell outta him! =( i shld hav juz kept my mouth shut...:'( u hav no idea how hurt i feel when someone i care abt finds me irritating... :'( how i wish he can tell me more abt himself...i basically know nuts abt him except he's v.busy n stressed...tt's all...really pathetic ya >.<" sometimes i feel i dont understand guys...think i have low EQ :'( i'm totally in ♥ with hello kitty now...much easier to understand than guys! >.<"
"Probably you are rubbing him the wrong way, or parts of your character just doesn't sit well with him. No two people are alike. Heck, even one may not get along all the time with one's self. So it is inevitable that you will irritate him from time to time. U will have to be observant about what irritates him and try to minimize that. For example, sometimes my cheapo-ness irritates my gf (which led to conflicts in the past) but I have learnt to be wary and try not to be so cheapo. And now I know what they mean by relationships take hard work!" ~ Marcus
I know tt i'm damn far from perfect n have alot of areas to work on...would others give me a chance to work on my flaws or dismiss me as some irritating leech? >.<" i do appreciate honesty...it's juz like how i didnt realize tt i was speaking at break-neck speed until someone played back a recording of myself! gosh...i was actually speaking slower than i usually would! o.O"
I was watching this 11pm show on Channel 8: there is this materialistic gal (Su Yanqiu) who plotted n schemed to try to get the man of her dreams (Mingzhang)...who in turn loves another gal who is in a relationship with another guy who was swopped at birth with the first guy (Mingzhang)....sounds complicated ya...anyway, Su Yanqiu finally won Mingzhang's love...but the man of her dreams turned out not to be the rich man's son...but a pauper's son...she was initially horrified to learn that truth...but she stuck by her man n helped him to plot n scheme to try to win back the inheritance...n still stuck by him n encouraged him when he landed up in jail...n she still stood by him n even married him while he was in jail...n she was already heavily pregnant with his child by then!
Would u call her brave or silly? would u do what she did in the name of love? it started out from v.materialistic intentions initially but blossomed into true love...i guess u would call that true love...if not, why would she make such big sacrifices for a man she doesnt love? how would u judge her? would u still call her a materialistic gold-digger???
"He who wants a rose must respect the thorn." ~ Persian Proverb
"You can be the best 'you' that you can be. Be inspired and inspire others!"
"What separates the winners from the losers is how a person reacts to each new twist of fate." ~ Donald Trump
"Appreciate & value yourself & you'll enjoy an increasing number of people appreciating & valuing you. Striving to gain the recognition & applause of others doesn't mean that you feel great about yourself, from deep within, when you get it. You'll only continue to strive to maintain or increase external approval & still not love yourself. Sustainable success has to be an inside-out process!" ~ Helen Lee
"多情嘅人不知『情歸何處』，多口嘅人不知『得罪可人』。多言多語難免有過；禁止嘴唇才是智慧。"
Jolin Tsai:
"Each time I fall in love, I see a different me and because of love, I could see what are the personality traits that I should keep and those that I should be changing. The current me is now less restrained," she said.
Tsai also said she thinks communication is extremely important in a relationship, and added that she now talks about everything to her boyfriend.
"Whether it's a fight or texting messages, I am now more vocal about expressing my feelings, even if I'm unable to express myself fully, I will try my best to let the other party know without hurting them," she said.
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